The dev seriously needs to update the journal pages showing the girl's relationship status. It is so rudimentary and is more hindrance than useful at this point, given that we have trust points, guilt points and all that. Just scrap the hearts and give us good old fashioned numbers for now. In the future, either use bars with tick marks to show milestones for quests/events, or return to the hearts, but have different ones for each girl's special stat. (guilt for Nyotalia, hunger for Yamakaze, etc)
Examples
Nyotalia-
Trust: 20
Guilt: 5
Yamakaze-
Trust: 31
Hunger: 10 (reverse rape scene imminent if available)
I think i locked myself out of Rem's quests / h stuff since I think I said ""no"" to her 1st quest since it sounded like a nice/normaler option from what I recall. (this was WAY back I have good portion of the stuff other then dream and finishing up couple the more grindy and secret things and not really bothering with collectables.).
But ya I am assuming there no work around and that I indeed did ? Guessing idea is like saying not interested in this character if you say "no" to their quests/h stuff?
...Why would you say no to a woman? Our character is a depraved pervert who lays his hands on monster girls of questionable age, a married woman, a maid, a loli goddess with a huge rack, random girls in his dreamland hometown, a freaking robot girl, and his own mother and sister, and he floods them all without a care for possible pregnancies. You aren't remotely 'nice.' One of your sister's quests involves starving her until she takes all natural Addyi and reverse rapes you, then perv on your mother playing with herself, after you drug her, until she says 'screw it' and lets you screw her. You even sort of rape the maid later on as well. In fact, the only ones you currently don't pressure into sex are the Mantis Girl and Velvet. (though that may change with more quests becoming available later)
To reiterate, our character is most definitely NOT nice. He's practically a serial rapist.