- Sep 18, 2024
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Maybe i'll be seen as too soft, but:
Has anyone told D that burnout is OK, and that he just needs to stop thinking about all the stuff and just do it? I feel like he's just a dreamer who burns out easy, then falls into escapism forever until he's kicked again.
The approach I see a lot of people wanting to take here is, "he's basically a lolcow. Stop feeding him so much or he won't produce. Starve him so he works," (which i see the point of,) and even more people just angry and calling him a scammer.
Idk the guy. Can't say he's not. But, what I do see is a person who doesn't stick to his plans, fails to meet deadlines after promises, and distracts himself with bs instead of fulfilling obligations.
That all reads as what some would say is manchild, or someone with no work ethic. But it looks a lot like severe ADHD and a penchant to burning out and giving up slowly all while denying its happening.
Has anyone told D that burnout is OK, and that he just needs to stop thinking about all the stuff and just do it? I feel like he's just a dreamer who burns out easy, then falls into escapism forever until he's kicked again.
The approach I see a lot of people wanting to take here is, "he's basically a lolcow. Stop feeding him so much or he won't produce. Starve him so he works," (which i see the point of,) and even more people just angry and calling him a scammer.
Idk the guy. Can't say he's not. But, what I do see is a person who doesn't stick to his plans, fails to meet deadlines after promises, and distracts himself with bs instead of fulfilling obligations.
That all reads as what some would say is manchild, or someone with no work ethic. But it looks a lot like severe ADHD and a penchant to burning out and giving up slowly all while denying its happening.