I think you need to realize a bigger problem with the hentai community when it comes to these things, If you think the "Lord Wolf" scene is what makes most hentai games tasteless, then you couldn't be more wrong. Let's talk about Shota or Loli for example, that's way worse than girls being turned to sluts honestly but no one cares and hides behind the statement "She's 18 years old trapped in the body of an 11 year old" 0.o Really? I think I know what gets you off, not the fact that she's 18 but the fact that she looks like a fucking child. Again this is opinion and fetishes, I have no problem with any of the hentai communities genres/storyline when it comes to games/videos/movies. I felt like I needed to reply because when you said "There's this issue with the hentai community" and you mentioned one of the most normalized things in life which is being cucked/stolen/broken because you or the character is weak willed or unable to satisfy the woman and she chooses what she wants because of being seduced compared to literal pedophilia/beastiality or even snuff? You are 100% wrong, but again it comes down to EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN TASTES, NOTHING IS WRONG WITH THE HENTAI COMMUNITY. Kinda getting tired of seeing people get fed up/disgusted with "bitches being turned to sluts" when there's many other fetishes which are way worse than NTR, never found the logic to why people dislike it? Could be taste or could be the fear of actually happening to them in life cause they know they equal to nothing and have more to lose in the relationship. I really don't know but yep.
And believe me when I say, you can get someone addicted to sex if you are pretty good at it. Nymphomaniac isn't born with, it's an addiction. Pretty sure they scratched up that term and made it more dramatic in hentai games. But in reality, you can get someone addicted to sex.
TLDR: Everyone has their own opinions and tastes, nothing is wrong with anyone in the community. Smh