i know you're replying the other guy but eh fuck it, discussion is interesting.
you're right, it's mainly the big dick and their sexual prowess to be more dominant/rougher.
even though "the hook" doesn't usually painted/talked about as race-play with racism in itself, but it's underlying nature and impacts are there.
what i mean by the underlying nature, it's niche but explored more when a black person is a dominant (ie in BDSM community). that's where the appeal of racial stereotypes and status on black people will be much clearer on race-play. if you're interested check katblaque on an essay yt video about race-play, she's a black woman dominatrix that has insights about it.
and what's your thoughts on white cuck husband letting their white wife being fucked by bbc ?
noticed how everytime a black male referred as bbc in pornographic/sexualized to be the main appeal, instead of a black guy?
that's because they are dumbed down and stereotyped to be a simpleton of sexual plaything instead of an equal person, that's degrading and racist.
ntr and mainly porn stereotypes on the opposites of spectrum:
asian guy = small dick, smart, getting cucked.
white guy = average, default ig ?, also getting cucked
black guy = big dick bbc, not the smartest;therefore safer for the marriage, since black guy dehumanized and dumbed down as such, less risk for the white wife to cheat risking her lives stability.
race-play is based on racial stereotypes, it's racism with an extra fancy cute wordplay.