Yeah. I am jealous. I worked for a 4 years on my game, why should my game be having less attention and be worse/hate?
I can understand the frustration of putting in time and effort into something and it not doing as well as you'd like it to.
However, redirecting that energy into shitting on other creators will not help your own game do better.
The sad reality, is that TIME + EFFORT does not equal SUCCESS.
I apologize if the things I say do not relate to you, as I have not played your game, so I am not aware on what issues you may be facing.
Instead of wasting time shitting on others, maybe try to find out in a non-antagonizing manner, why these other games are so successful. What are these games doing that yours isn't?
The time you spend being negative and hating on others' success, could be more time spent on improving your artistic, technical, and writing skills.
As you can see on this site, there are thousands of porn games, what makes yours special enough for others to put their time into playing? Try to find that unique element that you enjoy making, and others that share that interest will find their way to your games.
I saw in your thread that people are hating on your game, and I am sorry to hear that, but doing the same to others will not fix your problems. If your current project is not working out well, there is nothing wrong with putting it on hold and trying something new, or taking a hiatus to work on your skills/areas that people seem to dislike. Talk to others with the intent to learn, not fight, on what you can work on and improve. I know pride might come in the way since you've been doing this for 4 years, but sometimes its necessary to put your feelings aside, be humble, and ask for advice.
I hope you are able to make a game that you enjoy making, and that others will also enjoy.