So if the heartwarmy-ness is deceptive, it means it's not heartwarming. But if I'm told I'm being deceived, that means I know it's not going to be heartwarming, so I'm not longer being deceived ... does that then mean that it is actually heartwarming so the deception is about deceived into thinking it's not heartwarming...? But if I know that would that mean that ...In this deceivingly heartwarming story