Ha! I think the ex's reactions might have been more appropriate for your playthrough... my MC was consistently trying to be responsible (and only partially succeeding). But I agree that some of her later dialogues with the MC were very, very good and nuanced.I thought the ex-wife hit the perfect spot for an interesting and grounded relationship.
My route was an asshole route. Basically, the MC is gonna be perving. I've read some of the good guy route with the wife, and it was quite good. It just didn't seem to fit the MC I was envisioning.
The surprising thing was how consistent and realistic the interactions with the wife was on the asshole path.
What baffled me is that both the ex- and Veronica seem to want the MC to fit into the box of a committed, responsible partner -- and there is abundant evidence that he (might) not be prepared for that... at least not yet. Maggie's observation to herself that the MC appeared to be a hot mess that she should avoid struck me as appropriate!