Well, if a game had a petite blue eyed pale skinned blonde, a red-haired, tattooed goth/punk girl named Jenny, or a reasonable facsimile of Winona Ryder from the movie "Heathers" then I would be all in. Unfortunately no one has made a game to those specifications so I am able to ignore the love interests and focus on the story. TBH I usually default to any female best friend that the MC may have, then after that I go with celibate, then I go with redhead.For you someone would really have to write a game that contains either your RL wife or a red-haired, tattooed goth/punk girl named Jenny as the only LI. This is probably the only way you don't end up as a grilling, beer brewing single monk at the end of the story.
Maybe one day I will see a game with a fiery redhead who embraces tattoos and goth culture... Not holding my breath.