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Some will argue that we only have the commentary of Zara and Vanessa to go by regarding how their mother treated them.
I think Zara and Vanessa's mother was a nasty bitch, and Bella actually lends additional credence to this feeling:
Based on what we actually know right now, the only thing Nick is guilty of is working too hard for his growing family.
How many of us in RL have heard of or know of someone close to us - family or good friend - who overdid work hoping to make a good life for their family only to fall into the trap that what their family really needed was more of their time and attention.
I like Nick and his actions have, so far, painted him as a good man and a good dad - not perfect - but good.
He has certainly stepped up to the plate for Noji and her family.
While I currently don't like Vanessa, I could also accept that she adapted to her mother's abusive nature by speaking less and observing more - making her less of a target for her mother's anger perhaps?
I may actually grow to like Vanessa in time, but Ocean has far more storytelling to share with me to convert me to a Vanessa fan versus the strong Zara advocate I've become.
I also think Zara craves someone she respects to show that they value her and believe in her. I think that there are major rewards to pursuing Zara as an LI - including someone who is fiercely loyal and protective of her guy and, later in life, a giving and caring mother who will make sure that her children have the love and support that she did not receive from her own mother.
IMO - Ocean has done a stellar job revealing both Bella and Zara as LI's worth pursuing, and I think the other LI's in the wings will require some great storytelling to make them competitive with Bella and Zara.
Cheers!!![Coffee :coffee: :coffee:](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
I think Zara and Vanessa's mother was a nasty bitch, and Bella actually lends additional credence to this feeling:
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Based on what we actually know right now, the only thing Nick is guilty of is working too hard for his growing family.
How many of us in RL have heard of or know of someone close to us - family or good friend - who overdid work hoping to make a good life for their family only to fall into the trap that what their family really needed was more of their time and attention.
I like Nick and his actions have, so far, painted him as a good man and a good dad - not perfect - but good.
He has certainly stepped up to the plate for Noji and her family.
While I currently don't like Vanessa, I could also accept that she adapted to her mother's abusive nature by speaking less and observing more - making her less of a target for her mother's anger perhaps?
I may actually grow to like Vanessa in time, but Ocean has far more storytelling to share with me to convert me to a Vanessa fan versus the strong Zara advocate I've become.
I also think Zara craves someone she respects to show that they value her and believe in her. I think that there are major rewards to pursuing Zara as an LI - including someone who is fiercely loyal and protective of her guy and, later in life, a giving and caring mother who will make sure that her children have the love and support that she did not receive from her own mother.
IMO - Ocean has done a stellar job revealing both Bella and Zara as LI's worth pursuing, and I think the other LI's in the wings will require some great storytelling to make them competitive with Bella and Zara.
Cheers!!