Damn reaction limit

Man, I think now you've felt a little bit of what MC feels because of his
heart dick problems. Frustration, misunderstanding, a feeling of helplessness due to the fact that he isn't able to change his state immediately. Just recall it, that the author constantly focuses our attention on this in the game, and we always brush it off with “yep, sure, broken emo, mental problems, okay, now cut the crap and give us a quality time with <waifu_name>."
Well, he has a perfect moment with Bella in chapter five and so what? And nothing. But isn't that what he was trying to explain to Nami after they left the bar at the end of Chapter 3 before his date with Bella? That it wouldn't work out even if Bella wanted to spend the night after the date with him. That this panic shit won't go away with the snap of a finger. That's why he's willing to take the therapy sessions with Amber seriously instead of just bullshitting to her and pranking the nosy Bella.
And these attacks hit him hard, he had a few exciting moments with the girls at Vic’s - he'll have to run to the bathroom to catch his breath and regain his composure. The same shit in the reading club, a panic attack out of the blue (not really, there are events that provoke this) He can’t cope with this yet. Do you think it would be a good idea for him to try to please Bella in this state in another way, even if he can't get a boner? If he panicked after a slight physical contact earlier.
The dude is still sick and taking the first steps towards recovery, but most of us don't pay much attention to it, as if it were some kind of background decoration or a strange outfit, a minor element of the story. But this is one of the main plot points so far, and many scenes in the game are affected by this.