I'm not writing about ALO in general. I'm writing all this based on what you wrote earlier.
It's just that the discussion has shifted to the fact that Asuna allegedly has a reason for cheating in the form of how you said that Kirito did not fully consolidate Asuna's love. But Fujino's game begins with the fact that Asuna's status says "my dearest man, my future husband, we are going to America" and how inconsistent and stupid her actions look from this.
Asuna looks like a silly 14-year-old girl in this game:
"Asuna, show me your boobs!"
"What are you? I have a boyfriend!"
"I'm such a poor wretch, I've never seen boobs."
"Oh well, okay then. Look at this!"
"Asuna, help me massage my thighs."
"OK"
Kirito comes in, displeased. Asuna:
"How dare you not trust me? I'm the most loyal girl in the world!"
In a second:
"Asuna jerk me off. I'm suffering so much, we're friends."
"Ahhh, a friendly jerk off! Of course!"
"Oh, you raped me!"
"But I like you so much, I couldn't resist. Was it friendly?"
"Friendly rape? Well good. I forgive you, we're friends again, but don't bother me like that anymore."
"What if you give me a sexual favor every week for no reason? Just as a friend, because I'm so unhappy."
"Well, since we're friends, then fine"
A whisper in Asuna's head:
"You have a fiance, what are you doing?"
"Me? Nothing! It's all friendly, it's a special social help for people who don't have sex."
And this kind of crap goes on the whole game. I wrote that Fujino chose the stupidest NTR persona pattern possible. Asuna is cheating for no reason. Usually in games, the authors come up with something - the seal of lust, illness, blackmail (even Inoda and Kyoko's sex is better thought out than Asuna's betrayal), money debts. And the only reason Asuna has is that she is a stupid little bimbo in terms of her level of development.
Where is the "real person with principles and boundaries" in all of this? All of Asuna's principles and boundaries end where Inoda's desires are. And this has been going on since the beginning of the game in the first part, and continues to this day. However, this is no longer relevant, because Inoda has finally crushed Asuna's brain.