the importance is the personality. that should be consistent.
what we can pick is if we want to stretch her moral code or keep it intact.
to make her different in each scene to please the masses is wrong. we get a soulless girl.
also, what I hate the most if to force writers to change to please some fetish or what people don't like. it should be motivational only, like I write: "I would like her to blindfold and an obese dude with diapers licks her armpit." that should be a suggestion that if the DEV likes it he will add it. otherwise discard that shit for a better suggestion.
this, I don't like this and that, sure, its your opinion, but thats it. do not try to change the dev. u can give suggestion (that u already did) if it can be optional. but if no, its no. deal with it.