Yeah pretty much. Our entire relationship she was basically a spy for the templars and never said anything plus she lied about her job the whole time. There’s no redemption- it’s basically on par with finding out she’d had an affair from day 1 of our relationship. No coming back from that and I generally see the Templars as enemies now so she won’t get the chance anyway
I'm curious if people with this perspective would view things differently if the situation was grounded more in reality than fantasy.
For example, if Kaija was like... a secret CIA operative protecting you from international crime syndicates that had a grudge against your parents. Personally, it'd be upsetting but quickly forgivable. The only potential romantic partners she could have while being transparent without breaking
other vows would be CIA operative within the same operational unit. And your parents specifically told her not to tell you. So it's easy for me to empathize with the conflict she must have felt wanting to be honest with you as romantic feelings grew but not being able to without becoming foresworn or even potentially putting you in danger.
Yes, learning she's been dishonest would hurt, probably quite a bit. But if it was clear that she was remorseful and
wanted to tell you but couldn't, I'd likely be quick to forgive with the caveat that going forward we're in it together.