Hey, thank you
I know about this, will fix it.
You should get <>4, not -4. That message is when there is a Love, Lust, Dom check which you didn't pass. In this case, you have less than 4 Love so she will not tell you that "Joe will mess with you, and to stay cool" giving you a hint on how to get to "Party at Joe's" scenes. That is an idea, at least
There is, you need Anna's love (there is a message when you ask her, it's same with Nicole, "Anna's Love <>7" (I think it is 7 or 8) and you don't talk to Gina at all, or get drunk and high at Joe's and then talk to her you will get +2 or 3 Dom. Because you are drunk and high so you get some artificial balls for short time.