There seems to be *some* hope at least (which is better than none), so I guess it's worth a (23 Go, ugh) download.
I think it's not yet common knowledge, and people who mostly play with one favorite Sim all the time like me may appreciate knowing in the future. Also hopefully more WW patrons will make the author aware of this. It really doesn't feel like a "sim" anymore if you have to manually force everything the most important parts.
In any case, much appreciated to all who replied.
Make backups - like save your main family, then create another. You shouldnt be having to redo 23 times or whatever. So was doing some playing around tonight paying attention to what we talked about - some things of interest perhaps for you.
1.) if main sim is a hooker, other sims will solicit sex from you (npcs)
2.) sims in your family not under control will hook up (family being household)
3.) npcs not under your control will hook up with other npcs
4.) npcs not under your control will ask your main sim if they want sex (not hooker)
5.) married NPCs, at least one that has already been caught cheating, oddly wont develop romantic relationship no matter manually or through in game play (not sure if that is norm or not)
I think it has more to do with the traits you got set up on the npcs than anything else - i have one npc (computer generated) just macking every woman i got in the club even tho married.
I hope that helps a little. I mean, a caregiver aspiration with big family etc might be a tougher sim to break than say one that is a social butterfly that wants to make friends and party all the time. Good luck.