What do you mean how do you define it? Netorare ain't netorase or the other thing, so it's all different words for different meanings. I think I got the word I mean right, and it works in the area of family members too.
I've seen widely diverging opinions on this very site about what counts as NTR or not. I'm not talking about netorare vs. netorase vs. netori. I'm talking about netorare and what people say counts as that or not. Again, I couldn't care less, but the fact that folks fight over it tells me it really does depend on how you define it — what you believe counts as NTR or not. What you say is netorare is very possibly not the same view someone else holds. This fetish has a very long and disputed history. I know you understand how you're using it and what you count as NTR, obviously. But at least
some others are very likely to disagree.
That's what I was saying.
Now, you have your opinion, others have theirs. I can guarantee you won't always see eye-to-eye with someone else about netorare. Since I don't care (as I've already said), I'm not going to continue with a discussion about this. So please don't quote me again or anything about this, because I really,
truly couldn't give a rat's ass about the subject.