thanks for the input.
here an image for better explanation
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i will assume u are using my txt translation or just auto translator
1. Unrest Bar is the one that getting you exposed and potentially get you caught. Either you avoid it at all cost, using skill 隠密術=Stealth (second row, left path skill of stan-do style) or using 集団暗示=Collective Suggestion (forth row, right path skill of stan-do style). Both of these skill is for late game tbh.
ideally, you should avoid it if possible. getting 敏感肌=Sensitive skin and 直感=Intuition skill from Watcher style will help identify dangerous gaze (red one) and one-shot kill gaze (purple one). you might risk getting caught by normal one, but not by these 2 colour gaze.
2. that bar is the girl sanity bar. if you try to molest a body part that is sensitive and above, it will decrease the SAN value. If you try below that sensitivity, often it will raise it again since it felt unpleasant for her. the goal is to change the bar into fully orange. after that, you can use your dick to initiate a sex scene on her mouth, vagina(front) or her butt (behind). for every girl first sex scene , you always need to choose mouth.
Grover style skill can help you by increasing your molesting power, but this power-up can be interupted if you are seen by other or stop molesting after activating the skill. the skill effect stack with other skill effect.