It’s a dell inspiron 5000 touchscreen from 2014. As for ram and graphics card I do not know.
Your provided information are not very helpful, sorry.
However, I assume you have 8GB RAM and Windows 8.1 or Windows 10 at least. Both are sufficient for this game. A short search on Dell's Inspiron 5000 gives me two options for graphic cards: Intel HD (onboard) or with an AMD Ryzen card.
Either the problem are outdated graphic card drivers or something else is the troublemaker on your system. From your post I see that you are not tech savvy and gives me the reason to assume that your system is bloated with all kind of crappy software (installed by Windows, Dell, and other programs), which could cause the crashes.
At this point I can't help you through a forum. You should ask a friend, who has a bit of knowledge about computers, who could help you optimize your system.
other games like Being a DIK, Lust Epidemic, and the Visit
The Visit, Being a DIK are made in Ren'Py, Lust Epidemic and ToN are made in RPG Maker MV both are total different game engines. It is like asking about a bike problem in a car's forum. There is even a difference between Lust Epidemic and ToN although both are made in RPG Maker MV.