I'm talking about the morons who demand that a female character never have sex, even though they aren't in any relationship with the MC. Morons that call every woman who has ever had sex before soiled trash. That are utterly disgusted by a hooker and claim that the hooker can never be redeemed and is filthy forever. At the same time, they adore harem games. The double standard is hilarious.
Women deserve to live by the same rules as men.
Personaly don't really care about virginity, or if LI's have a past (as long as isn't over the top), i don't expect them to live in celibacy, nor are harem games my favorites...well, i don't like promiscuous and sex worker LI's, so there's that.
And there are certainly rather...strong...opinions, like you said.
But frankly, i really couldn't care less about equality in a avn, even less if it is a harem game, which by default is a (mostly) male power fantasy. Often also about some degree of purity, which many like about that genre.
Is that hypocritical ? Sure, but again, who cares about that in a harem avn.