I guess the difference is as i see it the MC was in the wrong regarding Sam and Lily
And that's where our disagreement is going to sit, because I don't.
MC was undeniably selfish, he had reasons but he tried to make choices for Sam and Lily without consulting them, without giving them any say or agency.
What decision did he make on Sam and Lily's behalf? He helped Lily get away from a stalker like she had asked, confronted the stalker (which was between him and the stalker), and he decided to find his own place to stay, because Sam was coming on
WAY too strong, and he didn't want to react too hastily or give in to her right away without knowing more about the situation and about how she actually felt about him.
They have every right to be angry at him for that. Esp Sam who has ALWAYS clearly had major issues where MC in concerned. I certainly don't think Sam was being entitled by being pissed at MC
These two statements are contradictory. Her entitlement and anger is specifically evidence
OF her issues, which are her baggage to deal with, not the MC's.
for not even showing her some basic decency by flicking her a text to say 'hey, I'm ok, just tied up in some stuff I don't want you involved in right now but know that I haven't bailed on you'.
If I haven't agreed to give someone updates on what I'm doing, then what I am doing is my own fucking business. I let my
wife know where I am when I end up taking longer than intended, but that's because we have lived together for over twenty years, and she has
earned that consideration. No one else has.
Also, your argument for Lily/Sam not texting him holds true the other direction, too. If Lily didn't get his number from him at her job, how would he have gotten hers or Sam's?
Perhaps the fact that Akira's words and behavior don't line up should be a tell that how she speaks isn't exactly how she feels and that perhaps she has a persona she is used to showing the world? It felt to me (and was confirmed by the Dev) that the juxtaposition of her words versus her behavior was intentional. She is used to being automatically respected and obeyed and when someone pushes her buttons she doesn't know how to act so she falls back to getting defensive and bitchy.
Sorry, but that doesn't follow. She
started out defensive and bitchy without the MC being at all pushy or resistant to her at first, and she behaved that way consistently even when the MC was doing exactly what she ordered him to. The "Push it" choice was one of the few cases where he
WAS pushing back on her, and
THAT'S when she acted differently.
How should MC have reacted in the classroom then? what would you do in that situation that would salvage it?
First of all, that situation was chosen by the developer. It didn't come from nowhere, and the characters didn't make those choices on their own. The dev decided to introduce these two LIs in this horrifically bad fashion.
Second, how would I salvage it? Easy. Fucking
communicate.
"I'm not going to be your patsy, lady. I'm not even involved in this shit. You want the drive? Here, fucking have it. It doesn't matter to me in the slightest, because I wasn't even THERE for it. I was just trying to get an asshole to stop stalking a girl who didn't deserve it."
If she continued pushing on it and trying to order me around?
"If you want to out the entirety of the military-industrial complex and brand me a war criminal just because I won't do what you say, then I'm fairly confident everyone who gave the orders I followed will rain hellfire down upon you to stop you, and even if you win, they will ruin you in the process."
"Now, if you don't have anything else, I'm not even a fucking student here. You do not control me, and all you can do is let me go or have your mute goon murder me in cold blood. Goodbye."
And then I'd have left the city. I
do not tolerate being blackmailed and manipulated like that, and a confident MC I would enjoy playing as wouldn't, either.