Can you imagine, there are people who don't play FemProtag games in a slut kind of way. I want my Mary Jane to date Peter Parker, not Harry Osbourne or Wilson Fisk.I wonder exactly where on the internet a connoisseur such as yourself could find a VN/Game more suitable for your tastes? There must be a website available that has more than just this one game to interest you. It's on the tip of my tongue but the name escapes me....
Furthermore, there are FemProtag games in which it's up to you to get with guy A or guy B.
Project Myriam, Her Desire are two games with more than enough action which come to mind.
Wanna see your MC get 10 dicks thrown into all her holes - have fun with that, some people don't like it.
As for the criticism by the dude - it's fair, imo. You want to make typical "and the hero falls down" game - have fun with that, then don't make Good Girl route. A dozen of people would probably play some kind of mixed path, because someone likes black dude trope, but doesn't like old neighbour trope etc.
Why games like AWAM and JOHN still have their fair amount of subs despite being lazy? Because their protagonist has choices and isn't written in a way that "oh, I see dick - 2 minutes later I can't take my mind of it". 90% of women aren't like that.