Let me start of by being on-topic first.
I don't mind it either way but you have to present it properly. If the game is supposed to be about swinging, cheating or NTR, leave it be. That's the purpose of the game, right?
If it's a game that is about romance and you got outplayed, then if it was written in poorly the creator deserves the backlash. If it was well written and and the MC fails to succeed then the player deserves the loss. If the love interest cheats anyway regardless of the actions then fuck the dev. Because my action therefore has no consequence and I'm supposed to lose in the interest of the story (which they should have explained)
If you are playing a game, any game, not specifically a porn game and the CPU or other players are blatantly cheating meaning that you lose no matter what you do, you ARE going to get mad and quit.
I am deeply concerned that more men here aren't standing up for women who just want to get fucked right by a confident and bold man willing to treat them like the sluts they want to roleplay! Lord knows their boyfriend/husband is too much of a gentleman to pound them silly while calling them nasty names.
And due to this, the Bull is a tragic hero. Satisfying the woman but betraying the bro-code. Maybe the bro-code isn't compatible with female sexual fulfillment. Perhaps, similar to unionization, it's a way for some men to protect their sexual investment against competition and deny women the sexual adventures that they crave but a patriarchal and puritanical society forces them to deny.
Absolutely SPOT-ON. I've been the outside guy before and NOT ONCE have I
EVER thought about being a husband/boyfriend, to any woman. And given the one sided laws that exist, I dont even want them in my house. Yes. I said it. I will rather remain the bull in this situation and have the husband/boyfriend pay for the upkeep (and he's also the one to get fucked in the divorce. He's a dumb-ass all around.)
xcrash - you say that female sexuality is misunderstood by men but yet your explanation is really good.
(I also noticed that you placed some words here and there to make it seem like you were fair and 'equal' because you didn't want to make it seem like you were calling women out. Its a sign of the times when you can't call shit for what it is.)
Netorare is the female power fantasy. Everything is about sex (her sexuality in context), except sex. Sex is about power (over others). She is the prize, and every swinging dick in the vicinity is willing to fight and (possibly literally) kill for a piece of her ass. If a 'bull' succeeds, then it means the 'cuck' is obviously at fault for being inadequate in some way (which is retroactively cited to justify betraying him). If the 'cuck' prevails, then his feelings regarding what could have been means he'll either overcompensate to preempt a future betrayal or immediately end their relationship (thereby officially freeing her sexual agency) if he believes it is beyond salvation. So, the female gets to "embrace her sexuality" yet also stands to benefit regardless of the end result.
It makes me so happy to see these POV coming out because for a long while I always thought I was the only one who thought this way. How does everyone else miss this point? I chalked it up to me being one of the few men who actually believe in self-preservation over sacrificing yourself for shit that nobody is going to respect/ honor.