That fixed it thanks! I had to change the stick deadzone in SteamVR to 10% and it stopped moving! No more motion sickness!
Lastly is there a list of must have mods or stuff to download? I just went through the looks and scenes and got a few of the top rated ones and all dependencies but not sure what else to get.
It depends on what you want to achieve. For me, must have plugins are:
Embody (POV),
BodyLanguage (if you tweak around a bit like NO shake chance, you can use this on ANY scene without breaking animations.),
Vammoan, Tiddy Magic + Naturalis upgrade (maybe CPU heavy for some, but no problems with 5900x)
DiviningForeskin (has DiviningRod built in)
Glance (Adjusted it for max view angle, and set it to look ONLY on other eyes, mouth and genitals. It won't break eye movement this way)
If a scene has built in facial animations, you have to disable them for bodylanguage to work properly.
You can combine this with
Alive and or
CuE but facial animations can snap sometimes.
Alive is getting worse and worse with every update but older versions have neat stuff like dancing, twerking, riding and so on.
It wont need any timeline stuff, you can just toggle it.
The latest Version I used was 46, because 47 has no .clist anymore and you have to run it as a session plugin which sucks..
Iam not using it anymore because Bodylanguage + sometimes the built in VaM "Auto expressions" option delivers a much better outcome with a less of performance hit.
CuE has only an older version up as far as I know but it is also worth a look. Has idle animations, different personalities and other stuff. Pretty fun