hehehehehe....
^ THIS is what I enjoy about this game, the choices and love/respect level feel like they actually have an impact on how the story unfolds and I like to try out different ways of playing the game. One save is a more realistic version of reality while another could be a full on kink mode. I can't wait to see how you implement upcoming choices.
Taking off the condom could be based on previous decisions of the player and the respect level: Wifey asks should I use a condom? NO -> obvious / YES -> he wears one, but if your respect is low then she will take it off.
Or for chastity, wifey could bring it up and you get to decide if you want to try it out, with the option to opt out again.
Or sissy stuff, MMC compliments wifey on new lingerie and she answers "would look good on you too". Then you get the option: "naaah" or "maybe..."
I'm gonna shut up now

Btw, these aren't suggestions to you how to implement it. It's just me having a new toy and being excited about it
Still a fraction of the time you dedicate to this.
Edit: I forgot to mention something that came to my mind. Is it posible to fully opt out of certain routes? For example I've enjoyed the debbie fling in my first go, but it's not something I'm super in to and now she's getting on my nerves with every replay. Same with the quite long flashback to her youth. Maybe it could be implemented as such that when starting a new game, you can deactivate certain known routes. Unknown routes are not shown in that UI as to not spoil anything.