I see that - but bear in mind that I can't design a game for everyone's needs - just my own. You're certainly right about stereotypes - but they're there for a reason - just trawl Cuckold boards. Also, I think she loves and respects him largely because he is being considerate and decent - such as protecting her from the mugger. Oddly, I usually hear the opposite, that to go down the Cuck / Cheat routes needs him to behave weakly. Just shows - we all have different opinions and tastes.
This is not a criticism, but a small observation. I'm not a big fan of ntr, but your story is quite unique. I like it.
From personal experience, girls absolutely do not respect those who do not have their own opinions, who cannot stand up for themselves and put her in her place, who does not lead, who agree with everything with her, who does not set limits in relationships, etc.
And also they cannot love those whom they do not respect.
That is, if there is no respect, there is no love.
Right there, if an MC wants to be loved and respected, he has to act like the clueless mister nice guy.