Yup, that's what I was trying to say. However, I did indeed turned on sharing at the beginning, but never told the wife about sharing, so basically never use it, I snooped at every occasion but always turned down Jamal, got the drug addition still refusing Jamal at every approach, even tried not gain the drug addition, however it didn't change anything. I even talked bad about Jamal during the jogging, which lover wife affection toward him, and this is how I got 4 affection point.
I know my english is not good and I probably confused many of you and I apologize
Hi again! No problem, we found out that there is a bug (3Diddly already fixed it in the new version) under certain circumstances leading to wrong events coming in.
Still, what you tell us about how you played the game, even fixed you would have gotten a similar, just not quite as severe, result!
Not talking about sharing (with sharing on) with both wife and Jamal leads you towards NTR, unless you go for full romance, which you did not.
You tell us you snooped all snoop events, no wonder that you rushed full speed towards NTR! I repeat again several of my earlier posts:
One big thing to remember is that use of snoop is something of a parallel universe and mostly linked towards NTR as being a big show of general distrust! Snoop is a parallel development inso far, that scenes watched with it are far more severe and hard than those you
do not snoop watch. For example, if you let your wife stay at the Xmas party and tell her to relax, but DO NOT snoop (choosing "Nevermind"), the event will happen, but it will be far more tame, partly even innocent, than if you watch!
You can see this that your wife does NOT gain the "drug haze" trait, neither does she lose love points nor gains Jamal points.
There are only one,two snoop scenes which can be positive, all others are geared towards NTR. In addition, some snoop scenes negate other events from happening, costing crucial opportunities. For instance, constant use of snoop will lead to your wife gaining several undesired traits while at the same time you will have no chance gaining some important trairs for the romance and positive sharing paths.
So you have to be strategic in your use of snoop,
using it rarely and only for a scene or two you really want to see.
It does not matter if you break off a snoop event you started watching, not all, but most times you gain and loose points or traits as if you saw all of it!
The "snoop" events are only harmless if you
decide to NOT watch them, when the choice for it comes! e.g. choice a) "Snoop" and choice b) "Nevermind" or "Don´t snoop" and you take b), then the following snoop event, say Valentine´s date with Jamal, stays completely harmless, nothing gained, nothing lost stat and traitwise.
Hope this helps you!