I keep seeing mention of a skill issue, but I'm not sure that is all it is.
There have been a few times even for myself that I don't realize 20 other guys just spawned and then I am in for a nightmare of either chain bangs until I am pulp or slap fights with their wet noodly arms.
Enemies in big quantities spawn only on the arena, and the type of the location you wanna enter is mentioned on the door. So If you don't wanna be chain banged - kill everyone until you reach satisfying number of enemies. You'll definitely notice that crowd of enemies started to shrink at some point - that means nobody spawns anymore.
Paths have constant numbers of enemies and I've not seen them spawning in any location of that type.
I've been replying to a specific person within a specific situation where he had difficulties to initiate sex with a specific enemy type. Taking to the account that you can't reach every type of enemy you can fuck without going through different locations - you have to deal with enemies one way or another. So it's either chain gangs or you shoot them (fastest way imo).
I've cleared 3 arenas on my way to Lucian with H-mode on, and I've never been grabbed even once - so yes It's a skill issue. Or like the other guy who can't kill a simbiont with whole 3 mags and says pistols are garbage, when you literaly can kill a simbiont with 3-4 pistol shots on level 0, the guy just don't know where to shoot (enemies didn't changed and are prety much the same as in previous version, and there are wiki in-game about them) but complains how enemies are bullet sponges - is it not a skill issue ?
There are inconveniences, like no sounds of enemies reaching you from behind and you forced to check your back occasionally. As there are bugs. No one denies it.
Probably retardation tho.
Retardation is expecting something designed for one purpose to work smoothly when used for something else just because you like it that way. Nothing wrong with using H-mode - it's an easy access to all poses and a godmode in sex. And if you want to play with it 24/7 - welp good luck. There are skill trees for this part of gameplay, underware and companions but you do you.