I suppose that I will have to put it like this: cuckolding and stag/vixen play are sister fetishes, but only half sisters with the same mother and different fathers. The woman involved may have the same motivation (get stuffed with a lotta dick to improve her relationship with her husband), but the motivation of the husband is vry different. The cuckold has a fetish where he wants to be bested and humiliated (as explained at one point in the game) because he finds this arousing. They want their wife to prefer the other guy, or at least pretend to. Kind of like BDSM this is normally only enjoyed by men who are powerful and formidable in their personal life because that's just kind of how people are wired. The stag/vixen swinger is motivated not by his own arousal as a result of humiliation, but rather by comperson. In other words, they are able to enjoy their woman's sexual pleasure vicariously. It is her pleasure that they find arousing, and the other guy may be pretty irrelevant as far as they are concerned. They may not experience jealousy or humiliation at all. That's why they don't hesitate to dive in and get their sloppy seconds because they were raring to go the whole time. These are imperfect explanations but it does kind of explain how the way the various Cuckolding routes are unfolding doesn't always ring everybody's bell because you can slip back and forth between these distinct fetishes pretty easily.
I need to disagree. These aren't mutually exclusive paths. A 'swinger cuckold' like you describe (doesnt mind what kind of guy is fucking his girl) basically doesn't exist. Every cucks that I met (net or real life) enjoy a roleplay like 'being weakest link in a threesome', so bull role is a universal role. Weakness can be stamina or size dick or nothing... the roleplay sumarized: he just like to see the other guy being prefered by his wife while she have both options. Obviously, I met swingers, guys who doesn't like any element of submission, but these guys sounds more "predators" than 'cucks', the main goal for they isnt watch their girl, but fmf threesomes or even couple exchange.
We need to be attentive to understand. When I was young, my first kink was group sex and MFM sharing. Then, I watched a video where a white guy share his wife (participating, not like a reclaiming) with a black guy, then i got jealousy and aroused. It was like a sharing turning cuckolding. Amazing. That was my first time enjoying cuckolding, but I still reject mainstream cuckolding videos from cum eating AND cuckold sessions, the biggest producers of content. I take a lot of hours looking for videos where one guy share his girl with other guy, without humiliation, submission, but yet videos where the girl testing both and showing the preference for the other guy. Now I understand. I was looking for a long story, characters development, things that pornography couldn't offer, except in THIS (sexgames) universe. Recently, I started to watch these porns, but I look for videos that sounds like a routine. So, I literally enjoy both ways that you describe and I can assure that most guys too.
The sociopath hotwife, the simp cuck, the black bull... I lived cuckolding in real life and I see these things doesn't makes sense. These things are just a stereotype created by pornography to give quick answers for the fetish. Extremely vanilla.
Also I believe that supply own demands are the goal in relationship for any person in the world, the real question is: what are the motivations of a cuckold, a hotwife?
I suggest these for a cuckold:
1st Any cuckold live on a tightrope. His desire can broke his woman's desire for him;
2nd he NEEDs to be powerful and formidable to avoid bad endings;
3rs if he's not powerful or formidable enough he should be cautious;
4th as powerful he is, as deeper his limits (we agree about this)
5th cucks have a polygamy desire like any person, but he prefer to corrupts womans in a hotwife role;
6th a cuck can be a virtuous guy who stay faithful to his relationship (don't break the rules of the relationship) or can cheating
7th many guys don't have courage enough to stop the relationship, guys can cheat, but the regular guy care a lot for his partner, so... A normal guy can literally use these things that natalia did in recent updates to motivates a break in their relationship. I wouldn't forgive her, like the legend nurikabe said there
these demands for a hotwife:
1st powerful cuck is closed to a faithful route. powerful bull is closed to a heavy corrupted route.
2nd take the attention + VALIDATION (satisfy the husband and the bull) from a strong guy is better than sex itself
3rd Selection. Women are selective. Women have the power of sexual\natural selection in their hands. BNWO = bullshit. The real selection valuates social prestige, interest of other females, hardwork, safety and comfort for the kids, good body, smartness. But obviously when we talk about sex, the perfect partner would be like a human sextoy, high stamina, good body, etc.
is this sexual selection the regular cuckold is looking for
4th she needs to understand herself. A lot of womans doesn't know how cum. Obviously a hotwife needs a strong 'self' sense.