... "projecting" ... etc. etc.
I don't know why I bother. It is hopeless. Clearly you have a very retrograde opinion of the sexes with your alpha-beta theory, where once a man accepts a woman's suggestions, he is supposedly doomed to a life of submission. I guess a "real" man would disagree with his wife no matter what she says, even if he actually likes the idea and it benefits him, just so he can be a "real" man. Even in 2020, opinions like yours are very common, unfortunately. Look at the whole "incel" movement. They love all the alpha-beta terminology.
Maybe you haven't heard of the expression before, but "agree to disagree" is a nice way of saying, I don't agree with you, but I won't spend any more time trying to convince you. Those of us that are married, or have girlfriends, or have spent much time around women, know that the "dufus" comment, is clearly playful banter between a close couple. If you take it as a grievous insult, well I don't know what to tell you.
I recommend instead of hanging around here talking about a game you clearly don't like, try Midlife Crisis, or Ecchi Sensei. You can have all the girls and keep the wife completely to yourself.