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Incest (especially mother/son) is the most popular taboo out there. It is very rare to hate your mother. The bond, the connection with her is so strong that sometimes people fantasise having sex with her. Because sex is the most intense bond between two people.
I don't think that's true for everybody. I used to look at incest porn in the past, before I got bored and I never fantasized about having sex with either my mother or my sister as I was never attracted to either of them in that way. For me it was more the taboo part and the subcategory I enjoyed more was actually the one where the mother/sister was reluctant at first, exactly because of that taboo.


Sophia is giving him time and is happy to hook him up with girls. This is a normal thing and what you naturally expect from a mother to do.
What? You ever expected your mother to hook you up with girls? I would have found that at the very least weird.


Common sense suggests that lesbian games should be more popular because most users of this site are men, but the reality is the opposite.

(I don't understand that gay games are more popular, but the reality is...)
I imagine gay games are popular more because gay men are watching them, not women. I think it's a very logical deduction. Lesbian games would only be for lesbian women, because for straight men, there is lesbian content or boy-girl-girl content in plenty of other games, so there's no need for a game with only girl-girl content.
 

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The neighbor, the school janitor, the gangster in jail, Elie's boyfriend Logan (in about 10 years maybe something will happen hahaha).

Aiden's Tasks that advance like a snail.

but if removing Liam, Dylan, Sam the remaining content is extremely little but that's how things work, we don't all enjoy the same material.

Just imagine when the Club content came out and I couldn't find anything from the Club and I discovered that I had to start the route with Elie haha.

Everyone should get some screen time and not have to wait ages to see their crush but again I am of the opinion not demanding anything. It's like the Moving guys vanished lol. For that, it is better not to give them any screen and options with them.

That also partly explains people's complaints not only about a slow but also limited construction.
Aiden and Sam only make sense in the game because they are Dylan's counterparts, so to speak. Sam is the one who is perfect in everything, and Aiden is the asshole. Without Dylan, neither make sense in this game. No, this game is about a wife and mother, and so Dylan and Ellie are clearly more important than all the characters you have listed here.

The fact that L&P has unfortunately plastered the game with subplots is something that is now falling on his feet, since he can't really finish either these subplots or even the main story. The idea should be to remove as much unnecessary side events as possible in order to have any chance of ever being finished.
 
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I understand incest with distant (older) cousins and it is something that I have felt attracted to a couple of times but with my mother or sister there is never something that does not call me Dylan's obsession with his mother instead of at least going for Sam's.

Lesbianism, at least in my case, I enjoy for a few minutes and then I get bored and anticipate it (unless a man sees or participates) since they tend to give girls very cloying and cheesy personalities and attitudes during sex.
In this game, Sam is more or less only the counterpart to Dylan. He's just way too perfect to really be a replacement for Dylan. Just Sam, would not make sense.

Even the lesbian part in this game is about something between Sophia and close famliy. Sometimes I think some here are blind, and just ignore the obvious. This game is called "A wife and mother" for a reason. It doesn't make sense to concentrate only on the side elements and then wonder why almost nothing results. My goodness, L&P isn't even fast enough for the actual main story.
 

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Aiden and Sam only make sense in the game because they are Dylan's counterparts, so to speak. Sam is the one who is perfect in everything, and Aiden is the asshole. Without Dylan, neither make sense in this game. No, this game is about a wife and mother, and so Dylan and Ellie are clearly more important than all the characters you have listed here.

The fact that L&P has unfortunately plastered the game with subplots is something that is now falling on his feet, since he can't really finish either these subplots or even the main story. The idea should be to remove as much unnecessary side events as possible in order to have any chance of ever being finished.
By your "logical" deduction, because the game is called a wife and a mother, there should be a lot of content with Sofia and her husband. Wife is the first word, why not most content with Liam?
The idea, at least for me, is that she is a wife and a mother and she has different reactions to the situations she is put in that a 20 year old with no real ties except maybe a boyfriend. Dylan is a driving factor in the Aiden plot, but only because he is the leverage Aiden uses to get Sofia to do his bidding. There doesn't need to be anything between Sofia and Dylan for that to happen.
 

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By your "logical" deduction, because the game is called a wife and a mother, there should be a lot of content with Sofia and her husband. Wife is the first word, why not most content with Liam?
The idea, at least for me, is that she is a wife and a mother and she has different reactions to the situations she is put in that a 20 year old with no real ties except maybe a boyfriend. Dylan is a driving factor in the Aiden plot, but only because he is the leverage Aiden uses to get Sofia to do his bidding. There doesn't need to be anything between Sofia and Dylan for that to happen.
Well, L&P has built in a good wife path from the beginning, and given Liam both workmates and an opponent in the form of Carl. In the end, Liam even has his own gangster in the game, much like Dylan has Aiden. :LOL:

It is important to recognize, however, that unlike Ellie and Dylan, Liam never really resonated well with the players. His story is probably too simple for many. Nevertheless, you can see that Liam was planned to be one of the main characters. He even had an event that was told from his perspective, just like we see with Dylan a few times.

Again, it's important not to try to do everything in just a single game, otherwise nothing will really work. You can really see how AWAM suffers from too many side stories. It would be better if L&P concentrated more on the main stories and made real progress here. Here, characters like Dylan and Ellie are especially important, but also their surroundings, such as Sam, play an important role.
 
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Well, L&P has built in a good wife path from the beginning, and given Liam both workmates and an opponent in the form of Carl. In the end, Liam even has his own gangster in the game, much like Dylan has Aiden. :LOL:

It is important to recognize, however, that unlike Ellie and Dylan, Liam never really resonated well with the players. His story is probably too simple for many. Nevertheless, you can see that Liam was planned to be one of the main characters. He even had an event that was told from his perspective, just like we see with Dylan a few times.

Again, it's important not to try to do everything in just a single game, otherwise nothing will really work. You can really see how AWAM suffers from too many side stories. It would be better if L&P concentrated more on the main stories and made real progress here. Here, characters like Dylan and Ellie are especially important, but also their surroundings, such as Sam, play an important role.
If the game only had, for example, Dylan, Ellie and Sam routes I would probably stop playing it. And I think there are a few patrons that would stop supporting as well. It would hit too few kinks. For me the incest route is not something I am very into. I was at first with the Ellie part, but got over it fast. The Dylan route is fun/funny for me but only because of Sofia's reluctance (normal). Same with Sam. If she was 100% into those relationships, I would not be into it at all. That's why I like the Aiden route the most. I also like the teaching path for the kids although I would have hoped they would be a little older, this way it's a little creepy.
 
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If the game only had, for example, Dylan, Ellie and Sam routes I would probably stop playing it. And I think there are a few patrons that would stop supporting as well. It would hit too few kinks. For me the incest route is not something I am very into. I was at first with the Ellie part, but got over it fast. The Dylan route is fun/funny for me but only because of Sofia's reluctance (normal). Same with Sam. If she was 100% into those relationships, I would not be into it at all. That's why I like the Aiden route the most. I also like the teaching path for the kids although I would have hoped they would be a little older, this way it's a little creepy.
I think it's hard to draw such clear boundaries. Just take Ellie, she clearly also has a bi interest in Sophia but still is part of the incest story. Also for Dylan there is the Cuckold path besides the romantic path, which clearly requires further action from Sophia away beside Dylan. Nevertheless, I think it's important not to think of a game as a collection of kinks that you just have to check off. This only leads to the story becoming boring. Especially little or not at all interwoven side stories, e.g. the side jobs are something that would have been better never in the game, because these only delay the development even further and thus jeopardize the entire project.

As for the Aiden story, I can only say that I perceive him as an antagonist to Dylan and that his story makes no sense without Dylan. On top of that, I think Aiden is just too unbelievable in the game to have any real weight as a villain. Even though I actually like the idea, I think that at some point it's enough, with more and more tasks that ultimately get increasingly distant from the actual plot. Here, for example, a combination with Dylan in his cuckold path might would have made more sense, because that way the story would be condensed. I do not know.

No matter what L&P does, the goal should be to accelerate the development of this game. What good is a game with many stories if none of them is finished?
 
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Aiden and Sam only make sense in the game because they are Dylan's counterparts, so to speak. Sam is the one who is perfect in everything, and Aiden is the asshole. Without Dylan, neither make sense in this game. No, this game is about a wife and mother, and so Dylan and Ellie are clearly more important than all the characters you have listed here.

The fact that L&P has unfortunately plastered the game with subplots is something that is now falling on his feet, since he can't really finish either these subplots or even the main story. The idea should be to remove as much unnecessary side events as possible in order to have any chance of ever being finished.
Really? So every game needs a 'Dylan' in order for other characters of a similar age to exist independently &/or make sense? I don't think so. There is something indisputable about Dylan, he is neither a wife, nor a mother, yet you say yourself that this game is about a wife & mother, hence the title, surely. There are only 2 characters who qualify & Amber was never an MC. I didn't start playing AWAM because I wanted to vicariously experience the thrills & spills of a schoolboy virgin lusting after the woman who carried him in her womb for 9 months, I don't care how good at football he is.

Incest has zero interest for me but I don't advocate banishing it from games, if I know at the start that it will be present. I just ignore it. Dylan is now so entrenched in so many facets of AWAM that ignoring it has become very difficult, hence my suggestion elsewhere of re-titling this game &/or rebooting from the start as "A Son & Brother." Then L&P could ignore everything but M/S incest & might even feel like putting in a few days work a week to breathe new life into his favourite MC. Fans who didn't like it could leave. It's a horrible solution to a situation that the Dev has created but right now it feels to the non-Dylan AWAM fans that we're already at that juncture. It's a surfeit of Dylan.

There is another way. L&P has indeed peppered this game with sub-plots, far too many, which he no doubt found easier to introduce, along with sundry characters, than to actually write a cohesive story focussed on a wife & mother. Several of these sub-plots involve Dylan, so let's get rid of a couple & above all let's stop the 2nd MC nonsense. Let's stop sacrificing various other sub-plots on the altar of Dylan.

My own personal solution to the Dylan issue would be for him to be scouted by a first rank English or Scottish football club which would give him a life few teenagers could ever dream of & coincidentally cause him to move several thousand miles away. He'd still come home for visits of course.
 

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Really? So every game needs a 'Dylan' in order for other characters of a similar age to exist independently &/or make sense? I don't think so. There is something indisputable about Dylan, he is neither a wife, nor a mother, yet you say yourself that this game is about a wife & mother, hence the title, surely. There are only 2 characters who qualify & Amber was never an MC. I didn't start playing AWAM because I wanted to vicariously experience the thrills & spills of a schoolboy virgin lusting after the woman who carried him in her womb for 9 months, I don't care how good at football he is.

Incest has zero interest for me but I don't advocate banishing it from games, if I know at the start that it will be present. I just ignore it. Dylan is now so entrenched in so many facets of AWAM that ignoring it has become very difficult, hence my suggestion elsewhere of re-titling this game &/or rebooting from the start as "A Son & Brother." Then L&P could ignore everything but M/S incest & might even feel like putting in a few days work a week to breathe new life into his favourite MC. Fans who didn't like it could leave. It's a horrible solution to a situation that the Dev has created but right now it feels to the non-Dylan AWAM fans that we're already at that juncture. It's a surfeit of Dylan.

There is another way. L&P has indeed peppered this game with sub-plots, far too many, which he no doubt found easier to introduce, along with sundry characters, than to actually write a cohesive story focussed on a wife & mother. Several of these sub-plots involve Dylan, so let's get rid of a couple & above all let's stop the 2nd MC nonsense. Let's stop sacrificing various other sub-plots on the altar of Dylan.

My own personal solution to the Dylan issue would be for him to be scouted by a first rank English or Scottish football club which would give him a life few teenagers could ever dream of & coincidentally cause him to move several thousand miles away. He'd still come home for visits of course.
Something that I think many here don't realize is that not every game can be for everyone. At the latest when you see a title like "A Wife and Mother" in a porn game you should, if you don't like incest, think about whether this game is really right for you. This idea alone, to switch off the children and only play the side stories, I think is silly. It's only right that Dylan and Ellie are important characters in this game. That do not mean that everything is about them, but it make sense that even side stories are there to support their plots as childern of Sophia. For this, You don't need a reboot, and you don't need a new title, because that is and was the main story in this game from the beginning. Also that some of the content is toid from Dylan's perspective , fits perfectly, because otherwise especially story elements that are unknown to Sophia at the moment (e.g. the voyeur elements in Dylan Cockold path) could be told only inadequately. I don't know why some people here think Dylan can just be left out. This game is about Sophia in her role as wife and mother. Dylan and Ellie are just like Sophia part of the main story.
 

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Here's what I think.

This is a game to watch the process of corruption of Sophia, wife and mother.
It's not a game to look at any wife's relationship or any mother's relationship.

I like incest.

But I've never been excited to see Dylan and Sophia scene or Ellie and Sophia scene.

To me so far, Dylan and Ellie have been nothing more than a device to see how far Sophia can be corrupted.

I accept the result of the vote, but my concern is Aiden and Sam and the children of Ava.

Aiden has blackmailing Sophia.
Sam is Sophia's "dream guy."
Ava's children are the devices that Sophia will be corruption to the very bottom.

So I like these stories in this game.

But even if I look at the developer's plan, I doubt I'll see what I want, even if I look at the results of the vote.
 

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Something that I think many here don't realize is that not every game can be for everyone. At the latest when you see a title like "A Wife and Mother" in a porn game you should, if you don't like incest, think about whether this game is really right for you. This idea alone, to switch off the children and only play the side stories, I think is silly. It's only right that Dylan and Ellie are important characters in this game. That do not mean that everything is about them, but it make sense that even side stories are there to support their plots as childern of Sophia. For this, You don't need a reboot, and you don't need a new title, because that is and was the main story in this game from the beginning. Also that some of the content is toid from Dylan's perspective , fits perfectly, because otherwise especially story elements that are unknown to Sophia at the moment (e.g. the voyeur elements in Dylan Cockold path) could be told only inadequately. I don't know why some people here think Dylan can just be left out. This game is about Sophia in her role as wife and mother. Dylan and Ellie are just like Sophia part of the main story.
I would have no issue with some elements of the tale being told from different POVs, including Dylan's, (if AWAM moved along at a rate commensurate with its popularity). If this game moved at a different pace, this could even have been welcomed. If I had to nominate a scene with Dylan that I actually enjoyed it would be when he demonstrated basketball shooting technique to Christine, which was wholly independent of Sophia. It even evoked memories of fancying my sister's friends when I was a teenager. [Yes, I used to be one along time ago]. Covering for Ellie's smoking wasn't bad either.

My problem with Dylan is that he's almost omni-present. Again with better pacing this wouldn't be such an issue but as things stand there's no doubt that the Dev is giving Dylan the full MC treatment, which I find, I'll politely say, 'excessive.' This has caused other elements to effectively be dropped, or at least put on ill-defined hold, because L&P seems not to appreciate the opportunity cost concerning time.

L&P never officially states that characters are being written out, only that they're unlikely to appear again, e.g. Jason & Haru, who SHOULD be written out this minute IMO. What he won't ever do is to tell fans that some characters are in limbo & that they'll disappear for years, e.g. Nathalie is not due back until 2035. Even just typing that out highlights, for me, the ludicrousness of what AWAM has become. L&P is a marvellous renderer of characters & scenes but currently his story-telling capability is running on empty. He has chosen to parsimonously ration out episodic AWAM events which means that whenever a particular character receives extra attention every other plot-line suffers. I believe fans only opted for event-based updates because of the promise that they would appear on a monthly basis. That has turned out to be another example of the Dev's economy with the truth.

If AWAM is not to be abandoned or gradually drift towards 1 event per annum, to be phoned in by the Dev, something needs to change. There needs to be a pruning of plots. That would be a start. As Dylan is involved in several, he could stand to have them reduced. Both side jobs need to be given the tried & tested DLC treatment, which means they need to disappear.
 

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If the game only had, for example, Dylan, Ellie and Sam routes I would probably stop playing it. And I think there are a few patrons that would stop supporting as well. It would hit too few kinks. For me the incest route is not something I am very into. I was at first with the Ellie part, but got over it fast. The Dylan route is fun/funny for me but only because of Sofia's reluctance (normal). Same with Sam. If she was 100% into those relationships, I would not be into it at all. That's why I like the Aiden route the most. I also like the teaching path for the kids although I would have hoped they would be a little older, this way it's a little creepy.
So you probably are not playing and won't be playing the game for a very long time.
Because it's been a while since we got an update not involving someone of the 3 you mention.
And will be much more time until you get another update without them.
 

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Something that I think many here don't realize is that not every game can be for everyone. At the latest when you see a title like "A Wife and Mother" in a porn game you should, if you don't like incest, think about whether this game is really right for you. This idea alone, to switch off the children and only play the side stories, I think is silly. It's only right that Dylan and Ellie are important characters in this game. That do not mean that everything is about them, but it make sense that even side stories are there to support their plots as childern of Sophia. For this, You don't need a reboot, and you don't need a new title, because that is and was the main story in this game from the beginning. Also that some of the content is toid from Dylan's perspective , fits perfectly, because otherwise especially story elements that are unknown to Sophia at the moment (e.g. the voyeur elements in Dylan Cockold path) could be told only inadequately. I don't know why some people here think Dylan can just be left out. This game is about Sophia in her role as wife and mother. Dylan and Ellie are just like Sophia part of the main story.
AWAM is just a game title.

Suppose there's a game named "The Tanning salon Owner Jack".

Jack doesn't necessarily have to have sex only at tanning salon, nor does he have to have sex only with tanning salon customers.

AWAM is just a word to describe Sophia.
 

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AWAM is just a game title.

Suppose there's a game named "The Tanning salon Owner Jack".

Jack doesn't necessarily have to have sex only at tanning salon, nor does he have to have sex only with tanning salon customers.

AWAM is just a word to describe Sophia.
After all, it's not only the title that's about Sophia as "A wife and mother," but also the content of this game. That's why I say it's a little silly to gripe here about AWAM also being about Dylan. Transferred to your analogy this means more that some people complain that "Jack has to much sex in his tanning salon" and me saying that it is fine for Jack to have sex in his Tannig salon because this is what this game is meant to be about. :LOL:

Angain, No matter how you look at it, this game is not just about Sophia, but about Sophia in her role as wife and mother. There is not a too much of the events with Dylan and Ellie, because they are part of the main story. It is also absurd to complain about too much incest content, as this was clearly planned from the beginning and is now only being implemented. If someone wants a game without incest, they should really think about whether this game is really the right one for them. Not every game has to be right for every taste. But it is important that a game has a chance to be finished, otherwise it will be no good for anyone. That's why I say that in a game like AWAM one should cut on the side stories and not on the main story, when time is short.
 

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So you probably are not playing and won't be playing the game for a very long time.
Because it's been a while since we got an update not involving someone of the 3 you mention.
And will be much more time until you get another update without them.
I only sometimes visit this forum so I don't know what the events of the update will be so I paly all of them. However I am skipping through most of the dialogue if I don't find a scene interesting. I also just check out some events from the gallery directly if they are not included in my gameplay. From the last update, I kind of liked the part with Sofia at the salon, flashing the dude and that's about it. I mean, the part with Dylan was interesting, and I might have enjoyed in another game but it's not why I play AWAM for.
From the little I read lately I expect to be disappointed about the next few updates which might indeed mean closer to a year, on the track L&P is.



After all, it's not only the title that's about Sophia as "A wife and mother," but also the content of this game. That's why I say it's a little silly to gripe here about AWAM also being about Dylan. Transferred to your analogy this means more that some people complain that "Jack has to much sex in his tanning salon" and me saying that it is fine for Jack to have sex in his Tannig salon because this is what this game is meant to be about. :LOL:

Angain, No matter how you look at it, this game is not just about Sophia, but about Sophia in her role as wife and mother. There is not a too much of the events with Dylan and Ellie, because they are part of the main story. It is also absurd to complain about too much incest content, as this was clearly planned from the beginning and is now only being implemented. If someone wants a game without incest, they should really think about whether this game is really the right one for them. Not every game has to be right for every taste. But it is important that a game has a chance to be finished, otherwise it will be no good for anyone. That's why I say that in a game like AWAM one should cut on the side stories and not on the main story, when time is short.
I think different people have different expectations from the game. And the game is now evolving into an incest game more than anything else, because that's what most of the supporters of the game like. In my mind this game is about one thing and that is the corruption of Sofia. The fact that she is a wife and a mother is, for me interesting as it would be different than the corruption of someone else, like most other corruption games have. Everything happening in the game is a tool to develop the one plot I care about, her corruption. That can be through incest at some point, of course, and it kind of was used like that at the start, that's why there were so many subplots. Unfortunately for me, fortunately for others, a lot of the people supporting the game on Patreon or Subscribestar like the incest parts the most and so the game focus has shifted more and more towards that,
 
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After all, it's not only the title that's about Sophia as "A wife and mother," but also the content of this game. That's why I say it's a little silly to gripe here about AWAM also being about Dylan.
Angain, No matter how you look at it, this game is not just about Sophia, but about Sophia in her role as wife and mother. There is not a too much of the events with Dylan and Ellie, because they are part of the main story.
What exactly is the main story though? I've said it before, but to me the main story is what the players make of it. You can cut out most Dylan/Ellie content at will, be a good wife, go for mostly the adult lesbian or hetero routes...and so on. There's a reason we get choices resulting in different outcomes. Some of which result in zero incest, others in more or less hetero/lesbian content...and so on. If you don't want to see any sexual content with particular characters in your game, you don't have to.

And I've also said this before, but that's pretty much the point of a choice based visual novel. You get to make your own story. Problem here is that most routes will only see content worth playing in 30-40 years from now, which might make certain other routes seem to be the so called "main story" as there's simply more content, which is caused by the game's development moving in slow-motion.

I personally don't give a flying fuck about the incest content in this game. I also don't care about children and teenagers. I'm in it for content involving adult characters (mostly hetero oriented). Thing is, I'm shit out of luck to get any of that within the next 20+ years probably. lol
 
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