We don't have a proper handjob and you are asking for sex.
Just something i will point out since we have been for sometime in "gropesville" and i suspect LP will use handjobs as the next frontier.
1-Handjobs are lame, handjob is something you get in your teens when neither person has any experience, in adult relationships it's not a thing or step.
2-Milk... Devs have trained people to expect this type of linear methodical progress, groping/caressing>handjobs>blowjobs>sex.
I shouldn't have to say that in the real world things don't progress in this linear fashion with obviously delineated stages, people simply decide to have sex because they are horny/in love or whatever reason is good for them at that point in time.
This linear milking path is such a established trope in this industry that we've come to accept and expect as completely normal.