VN Ren'Py Abandoned Another Man's Wife [v1.092] [Too Perilous]

[JetZ]

Well, and i am now much more confused after that. For my it seems this story will move from swinging to netorase.
I really hope i´m wrong.

wait why do u think it's moving to netorase?
because from all the dialogues within the game that i've seen (most have read as well) there's no point even hinting a sharing situation at all
(unless ur talking about the gameover route)

 

[Grumpy Old Aussie]

same here, i'm surprised ur using the same id on steam tho haha
i saw ur discussion and i'm like waiiiiit a minute is that him?
but yeah i rarely get emotionally invested on a AVN story as well tbh but the dialogues and story takes the cake for this one ( even my friends keep asking me when they saw me popping up on steam chat playing this game they're like dude wtf is that game )

I'm too old to get embarrassed by my gaming habits. I play what I play and games like this one pop up on Steam anyway. My kids are all adults and have their own families or are dating. Its not a big deal to them. The only thing I keep low key is the type of relationship my wife and I have. Her situation is more complex professionally.

 

[JetZ]

I'm too old to get embarrassed by my gaming habits. I play what I play and games like this one pop up on Steam anyway. My kids are all adults and have their own families or are dating. Its not a big deal to them. The only thing I keep low key is the type of relationship my wife and I have. Her situation is more complex professionally.

same, altho i believe i'm not as old as u (i'm on my mid 30's atm)

it's still a fun part when they sent me dm on chat just to ask wtf is that game whenever they saw me pop on steam playing something that's not "normal" games for their eyes

 

[JetZ]

Instead, I'm going to say that the full transcript of both versions of the call will be part of the ending.

at least we know now this "mystery" is a part of the dialogue for the ending as well

altho "both" huh? i guess we all can guess who's on the other end on that phone on train route

 

[Saphfire]

wait why do u think it's moving to netorase?
because from all the dialogues within the game that i've seen (most have read as well) there's no point even hinting a sharing situation at all
(unless ur talking about the gameover route)

It was this part of the posting that got me concerned:

Next would be that Steph has to drive you crazy or she’s not working. The trick being, I want her to drive you crazy, but I don’t want her to drive you away. (I imagine most people who read this just said, Bingo.) For me as the writer to walk that line, I really need to address those inconsistencies I just mentioned. At the same time, I’m trying to get the content out as fast as I can. So again, I have to double back before I get to the end.

 

[Grumpy Old Aussie]

same, altho i believe i'm not as old as u (i'm on my mid 30's atm)

it's still a fun part when they sent me dm on chat just to ask wtf is that game whenever they saw me pop on steam playing something that's not "normal" games for their eyes

lol yeah my gaming friends were the same. I'd tell them and they use to get embarrassed about it. I'm like, guys, I know you watch porn on occasion and I know you own some of these types of games because I can see your Steam and I own those games too so why the big deal. Now they just ask about a game and its not a big deal any more... It takes time. If one of my kids (I say kids, but they are adults) asks what a game is. I just let them know it is an adult game and that is all they need to know.

 

[JetZ]

It was this part of the posting that got me concerned:

Next would be that Steph has to drive you crazy or she’s not working. The trick being, I want her to drive you crazy, but I don’t want her to drive you away. (I imagine most people who read this just said, Bingo.) For me as the writer to walk that line, I really need to address those inconsistencies I just mentioned. At the same time, I’m trying to get the content out as fast as I can. So again, I have to double back before I get to the end.

actually that was a part what Grumpy Old Aussie was asking originally,
so what the dev said in short, her character was supposed to annoyed u there but not to drive "players" away


so i don't understand what part that made u think it's heading towards sharing from that


tho if ur on the "voyeur" route basically u open the "enjoying her by looking" door for the future logically, but that one will end up in a game over as well (since the new game over screen also hinted that on the dialogue in the script)

 

[JetZ]

lol yeah my gaming friends were the same. I'd tell them and they use to get embarrassed about it. I'm like, guys, I know you watch porn on occasion and I know you own some of these types of games because I can see your Steam and I own those games too so why the big deal. Now they just ask about a game and its not a big deal any more... It takes time. If one of my kids (I say kids, but they are adults) asks what a game is. I just let them know it is an adult game and that is all they need to know.

lol true,
but sadly most of my friends hides those games for whatever reason,
even when i caught my friend bought BaDIK because he was curious after i told him what it is,
he still hides it

 

[ename144]

Next would be that Steph has to drive you crazy or she’s not working. The trick being, I want her to drive you crazy, but I don’t want her to drive you away. (I imagine most people who read this just said, Bingo.) For me as the writer to walk that line, I really need to address those inconsistencies I just mentioned. At the same time, I’m trying to get the content out as fast as I can. So again, I have to double back before I get to the end.

I definitely respect the dev's level of engagement with the players, but I'm afraid I'm with Saphfire here: this makes me more concerned about the game, not less.

If the whole point of the game is for Steph to drive us crazy, that suggests the game is going to be a constant NTR tease. Play it right and the MC and Steph will work out their issues and wind up in a strong, open relationship without either ever going too far; play things wrong and we accidentally drive Steph away. There's nothing wrong with that per se, but from my point of view it means that when the game finally gets to the part I'm looking forward to it will be over. That's such a waste of potential.

I know they plan to make more games after this, but we won't be playing as the MC and Steph. That again suggests the games won't be about swinging, they'll be about trying to swing. It's a subtle but very important difference. Obviously we'll see what winds up happening, but I fear my hunt for a genuine swinging game will continue.

 

[Pr0GamerJohnny]

I'm too old to get embarrassed by my gaming habits. I play what I play and games like this one pop up on Steam anyway. My kids are all adults and have their own families or are dating. Its not a big deal to them. The only thing I keep low key is the type of relationship my wife and I have. Her situation is more complex professionally.

same, altho i believe i'm not as old as u (i'm on my mid 30's atm)

it's still a fun part when they sent me dm on chat just to ask wtf is that game whenever they saw me pop on steam playing something that's not "normal" games for their eyes

Hah I relate, I'm in mid 30s right at that transition point asking myself a few weeks ago - "Hmmm, do I REALLY need to logoff steam everytime I play House Party as to conceal my public hours played? Am I worried about perceptions too much at this age? Iunno"

I definitely respect the dev's level of engagement with the players, but I'm afraid I'm with Saphfire here: this makes me more concerned about the game, not less.

If the whole point of the game is for Steph to drive us crazy, that suggests the game is going to be a constant NTR tease. Play it right and the MC and Steph will work out their issues and wind up in a strong, open relationship without either ever going too far; play things wrong and we accidentally drive Steph away. There's nothing wrong with that per se, but from my point of view it means that when the game finally gets to the part I'm looking forward to it will be over. That's such a waste of potential.

I know they plan to make more games after this, but we won't be playing as the MC and Steph. That again suggests the games won't be about swinging, they'll be about trying to swing. It's a subtle but very important difference. Obviously we'll see what winds up happening, but I fear my hunt for a genuine swinging game will continue.

Exactly, I'm in the same camp as you guys on this. The entire idea of constant tension being desired is much more allied with the ntr school. That's not to say that a healthy swinging/sharing relationship can't have an element of sexual tension to make it fun, but most of what we're talking about isn't sexual tension, it's hardcore relationship tension.

The point about subtle differences isnt lost - that's often the case in this sphere; ala mark twain with [lightning and a lightning bug]. It makes all the difference in the world whether it's a couple trying to swing or actively and happily swinging, just as there's all the difference between Steph acting like a sexual maniac because both she and her husband enjoy it versus solely her own motivations.

Ironically it's that very distinction that kicks off the argument at the start of the game: Steph is [rightfully] suspicious that MCs desire to threesome with jason and tori isn't a joint creation from their relationship.

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sidenote: I'm probably one of the few here frustrated by how voyeur elements are always associated with extremely passive -submissive-cuck elements.

tho if ur on the "voyeur" route basically u open the "enjoying her by looking" door for the future logically, but that one will end up in a game over as well (since the new game over screen also hinted that on the dialogue in the script)

Can't a guy like to watch once in awhile? TMI; i'm pretty well endowed and dont get a feeling of 'oh he fucks better', it's just a matter of enjoying homemade porn right in front of you.

 

[Nurikabe]

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I think there is an aspect of Steph that makes you both correct and what we have been fearing all along. IF you play the low-confidence (unintended) route, you will experience a part of Steph that could be unpleasant for anyone who does not want that kind of content (the majority of the vocal people in this thread). But there are obviously people here that want the cuckold content. More power to them. I just am not one of those people and do not like the feeling that gives me in real life. Why would I want to feel that in a game?

You can avoid that content, and the bad endings, if you play the high- and medium-confidence route. And Steph will remain the loving, loyal, and slightly bitchy beautiful wife she is. I think we are safe from the whole game turning into an NTR nightmare fest.

 

[Grumpy Old Aussie]

I definitely respect the dev's level of engagement with the players, but I'm afraid I'm with Saphfire here: this makes me more concerned about the game, not less.

If the whole point of the game is for Steph to drive us crazy, that suggests the game is going to be a constant NTR tease. Play it right and the MC and Steph will work out their issues and wind up in a strong, open relationship without either ever going too far; play things wrong and we accidentally drive Steph away. There's nothing wrong with that per se, but from my point of view it means that when the game finally gets to the part I'm looking forward to it will be over. That's such a waste of potential.

I know they plan to make more games after this, but we won't be playing as the MC and Steph. That again suggests the games won't be about swinging, they'll be about trying to swing. It's a subtle but very important difference. Obviously we'll see what winds up happening, but I fear my hunt for a genuine swinging game will continue.

Valid concerns. I only know what the Dev has posted. If you have Steam you can access the weekly updates the devs post. I haven't had a chance to read them all yet. They may give you some insight to what the devs are thinking re-swinging. I was hoping A life Worth Living would be a great swinging game, but the new update pics look like it is going NTR, which will probably kill it for me. I don't mind very specific types of NTR but straight out slutfests are not my thing. All I can say about Another Mans Wife is to wait a couple of updates and see what direction it goes.

 

[Pr0GamerJohnny]

Valid concerns. I only know what the Dev has posted. If you have Steam you can access the weekly updates the devs post. I haven't had a chance to read them all yet. They may give you some insight to what the devs are thinking re-swinging. I was hoping A life Worth Living would be a great swinging game, but the new update pics look like it is going NTR, which will probably kill it for me. I don't mind very specific types of NTR but straight out slutfests are not my thing. All I can say about Another Mans Wife is to wait a couple of updates and see what direction it goes.

same on alwl- I do think those are just for that path tho - and being the most popular path they advertise as such. If you've played the game up to its current build, in its defense, the ntrish poker game path has absolutely nothing to do with the swinger club path. I remain optimistic.

 

[JetZ]

Can't a guy like to watch once in awhile? TMI; i'm pretty well endowed and dont get a feeling of 'oh he fucks better', it's just a matter of enjoying homemade porn right in front of you.

i agree with u on that part
i'm just pointing out that with how the dialogue on the real_end2 and if it's attached to how the "controlling steph" ends in the last version
it could ended that way
altho at this point it's just us speculating which and which gonna attached to that end
altho the "train" one will mostly went that way

 

[Saphfire]

same on alwl- I do think those are just for that path tho - and being the most popular path they advertise as such. If you've played the game up to its current build, in its defense, the ntrish poker game path has absolutely nothing to do with the swinger club path. I remain optimistic.

I already played the last chapter (on the faithful path). and it didn´t dissapoint. I am confident it will still be one of the best swinger games.

 

[JetZ]

I'm probably the few here frustrated by how voyeur elements are always associated with extremely passive -submissive-cuck elements.

since johny point out this thing,
can i also ask why voyeur always associated with submissive cuck behaviour?
is it because mainstream western porn made people think this way or is it always like that?
i'm genuinely curious since i often ask myself that as well, like why there's rarely game that put voyeur ( or some call it sharing ) not associated with submissive

 

[Pr0GamerJohnny]

since johny point out this thing,
can i also ask why voyeur always associated with submissive cuck behaviour?
is it because mainstream western porn made people think this way or is it always like that?
i'm genuinely curious since i often ask myself that as well, like why there's rarely game that put voyeur ( or some call it sharing ) not associated with submissive

Just my personal 2c, I think it's less of a mainstream western thing and if anything a pervasive idea on this site from a more eastern influence. I recognize the prejudice in this, and apologize to anyone from that region; obviously not all people from eastern countries think alike. However, I do think anime and the associated culture is much more comfortable with black and white stories, there are villians and there are heroes, there are strong men and weak men, and they look and act accordingly.

On the other hand, I think it was one of the most recent Lesson of Passion games i played where theres this musclehead who invites you to bang his gf.

 

[Grumpy Old Aussie]

since johny point out this thing,
can i also ask why voyeur always associated with submissive cuck behaviour?
is it because mainstream western porn made people think this way or is it always like that?
i'm genuinely curious since i often ask myself that as well, like why there's rarely game that put voyeur ( or some call it sharing ) not associated with submissive

I think it is a sterotype promoted by Western porn and media.

A man who watches his wife taken by another man must be a beta right? The reality is not everyone who enjoys the lifestyle is submissive. There are some very alpha type guys. The subgroup stag/vixen was primarily created for alpha males. Stags don't do humiliation and certainly aren't submissive. They are the opposite of the stereotype.

Also, its a failure to understand the kink. Its an experience between husband and wife. In my case, I love to watch her do anything sexual, she loves to be watched. We connect on a deep sexual level. Whoever the other person is, is irrelevant when we get in the zone. Its powerful. One encounter will sexually charge us for months. Even for wives who go out to play, they come home and share the experience with her husband and it can be powerful for the couple. Often those wives who go out are because hubby is an alpha and can't watch his wife in action, but loves the retelling of her adventure.

That's my 2cents for what it is worth. I have been lucky enough to engage with a lot of people from the community and have some experience myself.

 

[JetZ]

I think it is a sterotype promoted by Western porn and media.

A man who watches his wife taken by another man must be a beta right? The reality is not everyone who enjoys the lifestyle is submissive. There are some very alpha type guys. The subgroup stag/vixen was primarily created for alpha males. Stags don't do humiliation and certainly aren't submissive. They are the opposite of the stereotype.

Also, its a failure to understand the kink. Its an experience between husband and wife. In my case, I love to watch her do anything sexual, she loves to be watched. We connect on a deep sexual level. Whoever the other person is, is irrelevant when we get in the zone. Its powerful. One encounter will sexually charge us for months. Even for wives who go out to play, they come home and share the experience with her husband and it can be powerful for the couple. Often those wives who go out are because hubby is an alpha and can't watch his wife in action, but loves the retelling of her adventure.

That's my 2cents for what it is worth. I have been lucky enough to engage with a lot of people from the community and have some experience myself.

so in short if i understand this correctly,
stags are the one that people normally said here in most games that the wives/gf that's "shared" but not cheating

and usually after their sexual adventures they will basically tell each other when they are home together?
so if i wanna make an example using this game,
let's say in this game Steph went for that so called "office trip"
and when she went home she will tell everything to the MC and vice versa

did i get it right ?

 

[Grumpy Old Aussie]

so in short if i understand this correctly,
stags are the one that people normally said here in most games that the wives/gf that's "shared" but not cheating

and usually after their sexual adventures they will basically tell each other when they are home together?
so if i wanna make an example using this game,
let's say in this game Steph went for that so called "office trip"
and when she went home she will tell everything to the MC and vice versa

did i get it right ?

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Stags aren't submissive or in to humiliation. They share their wives yes. IF the couple decides, the wife can go out and find guys to have sex with and then come back to tell their husbands. Those husbands can be stags or cucks or whoever. Many couples have that arrangement as it is what works for them as a couple.

If the wives go out and have sex without an arrangement with the husband, that is cheating and is frowned upon in the cuckold community. Of course there are submissive cucks who will put up with it, but its frowned upon.