- Oct 12, 2020
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I am neither a maledom nor a malesub. Basically because I am not a male.That's what I meant, and I agree with you. The Ladies are naughty and all of them very heavy into lesbian stuff. Nothing against it, I like Lesbian Porn. But it doesn't fit with the Martin stuff.
I hope this doesn't become some Psycho- Thriller where we are just a foolish play thing.
Sophie was not sad about it, she was insecure she was sad because she did miss something in her life( a deep desire).
In all honesty I think the BDSM exploration is really nice done.
They use a safeword, they do aftercare, and we witness her going into subspace (That's the Head orgasm she is talking about). As someone who is into that. As a Dom I feel proud when my partner goes there. It feels like ok I did everything right. I can reassure you that's the goal. She is good she wants it. And she likes it. She would not be able to go to subspace when she is not liking it. And both of them had thought about it and have a safety net.
I loved it. Somehow this scene, where she is restricted. It was one of the most accurate and realistic scenes BDSM related I ever witnessed. Maybe I exaggerate a little bit. But I think the person who wrote this particular scene has experience with BDSM in RL.
I feel with you, it seems harsh from the outside. That's the reason why I don't want to play as a malesub. BDSM can be on hte edge. But it was very light in this case. Maybe you should avoid Sophie. I would do when I am not in BDSM.
But yeah, I'm not a fan of domination, humiliation, BDSM, etc ...
And I'm really looking forward to trying BDSM with Sophie. But to be honest, I'm really not a fan of this kind of thing. No matter how consensual they are. I think I'll give it a try, see how it goes. But I think we are all quite clear that at first it will be something light, and when Sophie and the MC get used to it, the level will increase and it will be more "heavy", although also consensual. This is what takes away my desire.
Having the option not to use BDSM with Sophie I don't think it's to abandon her route. The game does not tell you any of this. It would make more sense that if you don't want BDSM, you have a vanilla route with her, rather than just having chatter and talk that replaces the sex scenes. I wouldn't see it fair at all. It would have been better if when we chose not to use BDSM with Sophie, we would have had a normal sex scene. But no, we went to watch television. I understand that Sophie wanted to try this, but she made it clear to us that she did not want to pressure us or force us to do anything. And I felt the opposite. Just as I do not force love interests to anything (when I have the option, of course) I also do not like to be forced to do anything. Sophie is my favorite character and I know I am very pushy about this, but I really felt sad and I felt bad. I'd just like to have vanilla routes without being "penalized" for not wanting to see a fetish.