Again, this is a virtue and personality thing. If you're trying to have a harem, you'll find it tough or just straight up impossible to be lovers with them if they know about you sleeping around and their virtue is high. The characters do things on their own and this includes spreading rumors, so maybe someone talked about how you fucked the teacher?
somehow that's unlikely coz i have only 3 ppl in my game rn. And im starting a new game
I'm not actually sure what the source of this module is, or how widespread it is. I've only encountered it on a single
If you're curious enough, you could try asking the creator
I've never been entirely clear on the specifics of it. If an NPC has a negative opinion of you then you can use the grumble interaction to try and improve the relationship. I would guess it either removes dislike/hate points, or it converts hate to dislike. Maybe Monosomething knows more about how it works.
Thats if you fail the interaction - if you succeed it gives you like count, but it doesnt solve the issue one is having. Getting out of a hate hole takes more than just converting one type of bad LLDH into another. Having nothing but hate points with an NPC will make the NPC openly hostile to you, insulting you and trying to fight you non stop (refuse all such instances if you care enough, to not make matters worse - you might get slapped without interaction, and you have to take it as it shifts LLDH count more towards dislike). Having nothing but dislikes makes the NPC unwilling to speak to you.
I find that Grumble is only worth using if you get a 0% chance for the Praise interaction. Otherwise I'll use a combination of Praise and friendly chats to slowly get the relationship back up. It also seems to put the PC into the sad mood when you use it since I tend to get NPCs rushing up to me right after to try and cheer me up.
There are outfits/outfit packs other than 2 that you've downloaded, so it's possible whatever cards you've tried have been using outfits that you don't have. Some outfits are also overrides of existing clothes, and don't display properly in the editor. You may have to load the card in-game to see it properly.
