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You are missing the point.I’ve always assumed that those who obsess over the presence or absence of a hymen have never had sex with a woman with an intact hymen. It‘s not very good sex for either party. It’s more like a chore that needs to be completed before you can start having good sex.
The hymen proves that a woman didn't have sex before you. The absence of a hymen does not prove that she did have sex, but if she has a hymen you can be sure.
If you plan to spend the rest of your lives together, it doesn't matter if the first time sex is good or not. You'll have the rest of your life to work up to having great sex.
If a person was very promiscuous before entering into a relationship with you, chances are that she (or he) will continue to be promiscuous. And if for whatever reason she get's bored, she might be more inclined to cheat on you compared to a woman who was a virgin before you met her.
Of course there are no guarantees either way but past behaviour can be good indicator of future behaviour.