My wife and I could never have children
two of my friends, knowing that they could not have children, got married and, of course, did not warn their husbands. A close relative, knowing that her chances of becoming pregnant were low, also did not consider it necessary to warn her husband. In the end she managed to give birth, with the help of doctors but at great expense. I really hope this is not your case!
I completely agree with KARAMBA:
Do you think it's right to sacrifice your life and comfort for someone?
If that's your choice, OK. But I have a different opinion.
Guys just think about it. How many women in Patrick's position would care for their disabled husband? The more often you neglect your interests, the more often women will be happy to follow your example and also neglect your interests.