Hi! I might be reading this wrong, but I think you're asking if as a woman the game is interesting.
I'm a woman and I LOVE this game, it has an amazing and engaging story, a brilliant range of characters, excellent quality animations, a good soundtrack and overall I really really enjoy the game. Harem is optional based on the paths you play. I'm pretty sure even as a Dik or Chik you can choose to have one love interest. I play with my boyfriend and we both adore it and have multiple paths saved focusing on one love interest. I really reccommend it.