No. You can't get the Jade scene and stay with M&J. It's an either or situation.
However, we still don't know for sure if things are done with Jade because we haven't had a chance to talk to her like we did with Cathy about the Swyper interaction. It's possible that she offically ends things with the MC because he failed to show, or it's possible she gives him another chance if the MC can convince her to. We'll just have to wait and see.
Lots of wild theories going around ranging from mild ones like him leaving her, to dark ones like him being locked up in her secret room, and lots of other theories in between.
In ep 3 when she's thinking to herself about how she's forgiven him and wants him to come home, it sounds to me a like it's long separation due to something that happened in the past. Hard to say exactly what that is, and right now everybody's really just fumbling around in the dark trying to come up with possible answers.
Hopefully we'll get some more clarity on her situation in ep 6 since it seemed like ep 5 might be setting the stage for more being revealed with the MC questioning Jill about Bella's husband and Jill also becoming curious about what's behind door number 3.