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actually all the things you pointed out have made it far worse for young people! for young men only 1/10 of them get girlfriends or laid regularly where before 50% got it! as for young girls it has become a cruel world! now the assholes and douches get as laid as they want but since girls only put out as much means most of them are either dating cheaters or are forced to "share" their men! (and i´m just assuming women used to lie about sexuality if they do not that means women are having 1/3 less sex then in the 90`s)As a middle-aged guy myself, who's been married twice, I can certainly say things were a lot more, relaxed, by far. I mean, during our time the internet blew up, AOL, Prodigy, CompuServe (let's see who the hell remembers that here) so Chat rooms were a thing. No Skype, no nothing. Everything was still so new. I've been to about 11 states because of chat rooms meeting girls from online (one of them became my first ex wife after a few years of marriage) it was new, it was, almost innocent and awkward. Now there's smartphones, Tinder, AFF, I mean damn, the world got itself too damn fast.
But anyway I agree, things are much easier these days for younger people. I know I had to work like hell for it, now it's just, pick up an App, find a girl, screw said girl, rinse, repeat.
No thanks. I had my fun. I miss it. I missed out on a big chance with a girl I really loved. But not getting into that.
To each their own, right?
not to mention that dudes that have quantity and variety (not quality that only comes with time) do not put up with BS so put up or get out there are 20 other girls to fill your shoes!
The fantasies we live here is real for douches with rich assholes or guys with the mental discipline to keep a 6 pack!
i have always been a kind of elder for the younger kids of my town and i can tell you its only getting worse! and with the current culture some kids at home never get a chance since their family culture makes them fat and lazy! even worse some are too poor to pay for a gym and doing the regular sports no longer does it since regular sports do not provide you with a 6 pack! A dude like me that before would be on the top 5% percentile in the 90´s and early 00´s would barely make it to the top 80% in accordance to today women requisites... so that leaves 80-95% of guys as settling for ugly fat chicks, and being considered bellow average!
As stated this also affects greatly the women mental stability as the inability to keep a relation and having too many different lovers in a given time interval screws with their self esteem! So women have better options in terms of looks and variety but those options are like the Chinese tofu constructions good for 2 weeks instead of the old stuff that lasted decades! As for guys if you are one of the lucky bastards with a strong family finance and culture of health and well being you`re doing better then most MC`s in this forum but if you´re part of the others life can be almost unbearable with the constant pull of depression alcohol and drugs! and these lock-downs are not helping either!
Even for the Chads its not good i have a metaphor that i took out of the french writer fannon "the act of oppression dehumanizes the victim while it steals the humanity of the oppressor" so the guys that are successful with the girls are not faring any better from what i`m given to observe since they go from states of deep hedonism to moments of self doubt and deep introspection which originate serious mental stability problems on the long run!
There´s a reason why i´m an elder to these new generations i have been trough it and i help them to cope with it!
As for people`s comments about virgins i had my fair chance when i was too young and immature to process it properly so for me its not worth it! But nowadays for me to be with a girl who`s younger then 22-25 ... that is borderline pedophilia and since from what i am given to observe and study on official studies only 30% of them are still virgins by the age of 17! kids are trying to grow too fast nowadays, not to mention that if i meet a girl who is 22 and i find her attractive and she is still a virgin my question is "whats wrong with her?" because something as to be wrong with her!
that is the reservation collateral if you do the buy in on a house of for instance 5% and you decide to not buy it that retainers fee is lost!Exactly. It's essentially like he's pre-booked her but there's a hidden clause that says he has to meet certain conditions, like you can book a table at a fancy restaurant but it has a "no suit, no service" policy, so if you turn up wearing jeans and a t-shirt, they won't seat you even though you pre-booked.
That's a problem with the game design. You should only lose the money when you meet up with Sarah.
of course there are! did you not received the memorandum that GIRL stands for Guy In Real Life? plenty of girls around!Girls on the internet? Surely thou doth jest? I have scoured the vast lands of the internet, I have not managed to find but one female. Have you not heard the great maxim? "there are no girls on the internet"