Definitely not for you, yeah.
Pretty restrictive definition of "love" you have there, though. Some of these people are life-long partners who care deeply for each other. Some of them are BFFs. Then there’s also the familial love present throughout the game. Exclusive sex is just not part of their relationships.
I am aware that mine is a restricted definition but it is mine,
also life-long partners that care deeply for each other not you,
BFFs do not have sex with each other,
and familial love is a different thing,
the greeks had three different words for love, each with a different meaning,
there are different forms of love but they are not all romance and also not compatible with a harem,
sometimes they overlap like both a friend and a lover however the romantic component has to be there,
and to me specifically if there is no romance then sex is meaningless,
and the sex has to be exlusive otherwise it is not love, I would never have sex with someone I dont love,
and the same should apply to them, it is a question of loyalty, if you want to have sex for fun you are free to do so but I see it as something only between lovers and am disgusted by peaple who pride themselves by how many peaple they had sex with, it also is not a double standard because I equally hate men and women of this category,
I belive you can love multiple peaple but sex can only happen if they love you the same way,
also a harem needs a focal point which usually is the MC but there can be no harem if the girls dont love you in the same way, if i was attracted to men I would have no problem with the inclusion of a man in a possible harem however I am not so I dont want them in, if a girl is not ok with that she leaves it is quite simple,
the logistics for this to happen in reality are next to none however in games it is a different story,
so exuse me for having my own opinion on love but this to me is not a harem,
it is love but not romance which now that I ceck is not one of the tags so maybe I was just in the wrong palce anyway,
still the dev has kindly explained to me the kind of game this is and I have determined it not to my taste,
to me there cannot be sex without romance but for others it's different,
I do not want the game to change nor am I going to change my tastes to conform to others so my definition may be narrow but it is mine.
Good luck to the dev I have nothing against you.
