As far as i'm aware Lauren and her cousins age are the same, so whatever is selected for Lauren will be the same for MeganLove the game so far. I take it that the cousin's age is the same as the youngest daughter's? I understand the slow vid card concerns you have, having run into them myself. I have a new system on order, hoping you can take care of it at your end soon too. Luv the facepalms and the humor, and here's hoping you can continue with more.