Finally got through my first playthrough... And turns out its impossible to do a triple distortion (Temptation, Aversion and Rampancy) together. Ended up getting temptation and rampancy to succeed.
congratulations on your first win!! And a distortion based win at that, that’s really impressive in my opinion
As for your problem with trying for that triple distortion combination, it is possible, albeit at the cost of it being very tricky. Distortions with the opposite vulnerability focuses tend to synergize well together, Aversion - Temptation/ Negotiation - Rampancy but are a little bit more difficult when you try to add a different third distortion into the mix. A Temptation/Aversion/Rampancy combination in particular is one of the hardest imo since your defiler + options are far more limited and you have to deal with the rampancy chosen rampaging at the drop of a hat.
Aversion + Rampancy chosen are a bit difficult to win the final battle since their requirements are opposed to each other, Aversion chosen rely on being able to make orgies and rampancy chosen will inevitably break up orgies on their own with their rampaging so you can see why that would be difficult in the final battle. it’s more manageable if the final chosen in the team is undistorted so you can just use her as a link to form orgies through something like sodomize + and a drain commander.
In my personal experiences, if you want to involve a rampancy chosen in an orgy with an aversion chosen, especially for the final battle, you need to avoid raising the HATE of the rampancy chosen as much as you possibly can, this is easier if you trained forsaken in your roster or nowadays certain items but on the first loop it really requires paying attention to the team dynamic and whittling down the aversion requirements for that distorted chosen.
I don’t know your specific team dynamic but from the distortion combination standpoint for the final battle, I would use a parasitism commander with multiple charges, start with the temptation chosen, move on to the rampancy chosen, before capturing the aversion chosen, all the while I raised the INJU on the rampancy chosen as much as I can, avoiding raising HATE since the orgy would eventually make it surpass INJU anyway. EDIT: And use broadcast + on the temptation and rampancy chosen, this is more manageable since the HATE increase is less intense compared to inseminate (at least before 10k hate)
Since this is your first play through I would advise playing and experimenting a bit more before doing triple distortion victories so you can grow more accustomed to distortions and the final battle in general, it would help you strategize even better than you currently are.
As for your last question, I’m a bit confused what you mean by “bonuses” and not synching up breaks, since the only time I associate breaks is with vulnerabilities. So apologies that I can’t help out with this part too much haha. I need to go to work soon but if you explain that part a bit more I’ll try to help once im home though, hope you continue to have fun with the game!