There's plenty of Netori games in Japan, though I think it's still less than Netorare.
Sometimes I like Netorare games if they do a really good jog of making the girls corrupted and perverted, but those are the minority (and I can only think of Japanese games that do that, none western ones). Usually these games focus as much on the girl becoming a slut as in the NTR aspect, so it's nice to play even though I don't like netorare itself.
Games that are just about the suffering and sadness of some cuck faggot don't really interest me and I don't get why they are so popular, but each to their own I guess.