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Yes, I would have also preferred Graham/Olivia first because that relationship is already well developed and there was no reason to not bring it to a full swap or at least a soft swap in this update. But, well.. Mr Dots didn't manage to do that scene in time.. What can we do? We go for Margo/Ryan..This is the reason that I would have preferred Graham / Olivia for swinging / swapping.
D has feelings for Ryan. Feelings and kissing can be a real danger when involved in swinging, especially if a person has only ever had one sexual partner. To me, kissing and hugging after sex is for a loving relationship.
I think that D is not mature enough to handle just causal sex with Ryan, and I think that F could have done a better job with the conversation afterwards.
Of course feelings are dangerous in such combinations, which is why swingers usually avoid having feelings for the other sex partners. It is basically just sex, just "for fun". At least theoretically. But in fact I am more for a "polyamory" relationship with other couples, a "combination" between swinging ad polyamory. That involves and accepts feelings. But i agree it is really difficult to handle such things, even for older and more experienced couples. There is much risk within such relationships indeed.
But .. on the other hand, does a visual novel not always need some "challenge", some "conflicts", some "drama"? And would it not be better to have those placed in this field of "sex and feelings" instead of being brought by some characters outside the main topic of the game, or a perv with binoculars or even a nasty mother or a nasty competitor in a contest?
And on another .. other hand.. I don't know about you but when I fuck a woman that I like, I do have at least "some" feelings for her at least for the duration of the act, most of the times even after. That can really not be avoided, unless you lie yourself. and your partner and say no, it was only fun.. So yes, swingers usually try to avoid feelings but i would not bet that they succeed all the time
That's the reason why i'm more for polyamory coz, although it is very difficult to deal with it, in that case the feelings are agreed upon and nobody has to lie.. I agree that Dee may be too young to deal with that successfully, but she can't avoid feelings anyway, so better accept them and try to deal with them. The sooner, the better. Because sooner or later they will become part of those "funny things" anyway..
After all what F told Dee from the beginning of this "corrupted"path was that it's "normal" to have feelings also for other men that she may like.. He didn't say its normal to fuck around the block but don't you dare to have feelings when doing that..