No NTR or Rape will be in MrDots games.
Yup, they've said that, but that actually means "No NTR, refering specifically to the particular way the MrDots team defines it, will be in MrDots games", doesn't it? Their definiton might be the most "correct" definition, linguistically, but it's also not the definition most people opposed to the idea are using.
As a result they can honestly claim "there will be no NTR" while knowing full-well they're planning to introduce content many of their players would absolutely call NTR.
As in this example, Jeff Steel literally said that in all future games going forward, if the MC has multiple partners, then so will the primary love interests, unavoidably. Many of their players would call that unavoidable NTR, even if the devs don't. Jeff's claim that "you can avoid it by being monongamous, so it's avoidable" is a prevarication, and he knows it.
Or Jeff might be lying. I have no idea how true what he said was, but it is what he said.
So just to check: Will the story inevitably end in the D and whomever else fucking other lads without the player being able to prevent it? Just checking because I am not into that. I know it's hypocritical and I don't care; porn to me is fantasy and wish fullfillment
Not sure, which is the problem. Something one of the development team said implied something like that (it's just the primary love interest, in this case D), but it wasn't 100% clear. Adding further confusion, they've asserted multiple times there will be no NTR, and I believe they mean that, but they've also given a very particular definition of what constitutes NTR by their definition; D fucking other men without the player being able to prevent it wouldn't actually count as NTR by their definition, provided she isn't "stolen away" by those men. Would you count that as NTR?
As a result, I don't have a simple answer to your question that I can guarantee with any real certainty.
No, because that would be NTR and that's not happening.
It actually wouldn't, not by the narrow definition of NTR they're using, that's kind of the problem. Provided D isn't "stolen away" from the MC, her fucking other men in scenarios the player can't avoid doesn't qualify as NTR. Let me ask, would you define it as NTR?