My previous comments were deleted cause off-topic, so I won't delve back into the subject.
However thought I should at least acknowledge your response. And understand where you are coming from. I think most people view "it" as anyone other than MC doing stuff (without his permission that is, with permission is just sharing, although personally is one in the same to me

Sole-male is the only way in my book XD).
Honestly if it is all avoidable (the non-MC dreams included) I don't think there will be any real issue. Obviously people will still complain, cause well for any number of reasons (misinterpreting a post or something).
Side note: Is there a route where you can have all the girls but only MC? cause if so you will probably want to add the harem tag.