I respect the backers by writing at the best I can. I am no Faulkner, I can write only a week per month (I am definitely not the main writer of the game), so my best may not be that good, but it's still my best and it costs me A LOT of effort (English not being my first language). I have no intention of stalling the game, I used to be a normal patron myself and just happened to love the game so much that I offered my modest contribution, and mrdots accepted. I have no intention to turn dmd into a scam, I am emotionally into the game and would genuinely suffer in seeing it turn into shit. Sure the game might still turn into shit, but that would happen because the devs are not skilled enough, not because they are ill-intentioned.
As for your specific allegations: the general outline of the story was planned long ago and it seemed only natural to divide it into chapters; the "out-thereness" of dmd seems to be troubling ONLY YOU among thousands of players, so if I were in you I would start questioning my own cognitive processes instead of thinking that all the others are idiots: "out there" doesn't mean in another earth, it means that it is in a costitutively UNSPECIFIED place part of this earth (and the absence of hair is little more than an in-game joke).
If I'll have time and won't get the feeling that our work, defective as it may be, is treated like less than shit (nobody who is at least trying to do something good deserves it), I'll be willing to discuss the issue of daughter's naivety on this forum in the future. At the moment, I do get the feeling that some people on this board are just puking their bitterness over the game, in a burst of outrage that I frankly cannot fully comprehend and that, personally speaking, I don't think to deserve (and I have a pretty low opinion of my work in general). Being puked on is not a good experience, and I am starting to undesrtand why so many creators avoid fan (?) communities on the internet.
I have always disliked the use of the word "hater", it seemed a low effort strategy to defuse criticism, but now that I am on the other side, I must admit that sometimes I feel like it's an appropiate word to describe some dynamics. I mean, dmd is what you see, for good and for bad. So seriously, if you are so disgusted with it, why in the world are you still playing it? If I were in you and this game annoyed me so much I would just try to avoid it. Care to explain this to me? Are you so thoroughly outraged by the fact that other people don't understand how shitty the whole project is that you took upon yourself to convince them? Seems like an awful lot of effort.