Q: Is Estate : Dominate a 'Femdom Game'?
A: No, it isn't. The game is set in a female dominated environment, but that does not mean that everything taking place there will be 'femdom'.
Imagine a movie that is set at the front line of a war. That movie could be a war movie, but it could also be a romantic love story. You would, of course, expect the front line setting to have relevance either way. So even if the movie is a love story, there's a good chance one of the lovers dies to a random artillery shell in the end.
The same is true for Estate : Dominate. The MC will be in a female dominated setting for the entire game. But that does not mean that all content will be 'femdom'. It does, however, mean that even an MC with a dominant disposition can be hit by a femdom artillery shell from time to time.
Q: I want to be a dominant MC, where is my dominant content?
A: It's coming, but I have no intention to degrade the game by allowing you to 'escape' the setting. If you are not interested to play as a dominant MC in a female dominated environment, then Estate : Dominate is not the game for you and you should play something else.
If you do continue to play, you will be able to slowly expand your power and partly turn the tables. Unlikely to the point of formal role reversal, and certainly with setbacks to remind you of the place you're in, but there will be plenty of dominant scenes where you can take advantage of other servants or get to pay back some of the Mistresses for what they've done to you.