I don't understand why would anyone choose a sloppy seconds over a virgin. You're talking as if people are not allowed to have their opinion just because you think something is normal 'nowadays'.
Tell you what, this wouldn't have been normal if it wasn't because of these woke people who do whatever shit they want and blame it on past. YOU'RE THE ONE WHO MADE THOSE DECISIONS. NO ONE FORCED YOU TO DO ANYTHING. YOU'RE AT FAULT HERE, NOT YOUR PAST. So I can definitely understand the fixation with virginity.
And many don't like the idea of sharing their love interest even if it happened in the past. Now you might say that there were no feelings involved then but after you meet someone and have feelings for her does it make it better to know that she fucked someone but it was only in past. People don't like to hear about their partner's sexual past and that's because it hurts them that she was jumping on some other's dick before meeting you.
There are people like her who are called sluts. Don't try to tone it down by saying she's carefree, free, confident, mature bla bla bla. These words are just for sugarcoating. Just be blunt and call them sluts. Now, if you think you can have a romantic game with these 'feeling free' girls then you're definitely wrong.
Yeah and? It's a fantasy. Just because you are fucking around doesn't mean you'll have to be fine with anything. That's why open relationship isn't norm now but you never know with these woke people. I won't be surprised if it becomes a norm. It's their life anyways so yeah IDGAF.
Also, any self respecting human being won't give themselves away just like that. They usually wait for that someone special. Maybe your woke surrounding don't care about it but guess what? This world is much larger than your city and there are people who actually fucking care.
It's better to be the only one instead of being the best. Hearing from a slut that I'm the best she had only makes my stomach turn. Being great in bed isn't something to boast about.