As "the guy who wrote that review" I'd like to answer briefly.
I for one have also voiced against sleep sex and mind control (etc) when it's not correctly tagged, because I usually avoid these games for this exact reason. Anything non-consensual puts me off.
You write a lot, and I'm not going into single arguments. I've worked with a lot of abuse victims over the past 20 years and much of what you wrote is exactly what I've heard many times from rapists' lawyers.
You enjoyed the Quinn update, I didn't. We will not see eye to eye on this. Let's leave it at that, okay?